Taking the pain out of loss

Taking the pain out of loss

Author: Kadampa Buddhism April 6, 2026 Duration: 15:48
The sadness we feel when we go through loss or separation is not coming from the loss itself, it’s coming from the irrational mind of attachment. Buddha gives scientific teachings on how our pain is created by this and other negative states of mind. Based on Understanding The Mind by Geshe Kelsang Gyatso, Gen Gomlam explains that by understanding the distinction between love and attachment and realising how Buddhist wisdom overcomes this irrational and painful mind, we can heal our emotional pain. Further reading in the following book: How to Understand the Mind

There's a particular kind of quiet that comes not from silence, but from understanding. Living Clarity is an invitation into that space, guided by the practical wisdom of Kadampa Buddhism. Each episode feels less like a lecture and more like a conversation about how ancient principles meet the noise of contemporary life-managing stress, finding focus in a distracted world, and cultivating a genuine sense of well-being that touches both mind and body. You'll hear guided meditations that are accessible whether you're sitting on a cushion or during a lunch break, alongside discussions that break down philosophical ideas into tools for everyday resilience. This podcast, presented by Kadampa Buddhism, operates at the intersection of personal health and spiritual inquiry, suggesting that clarity isn't a distant goal but a way of moving through your daily routines with more intention and less friction. It’s for anyone curious about how a centuries-old tradition can offer fresh perspectives on modern challenges, from relationships to personal fitness goals to simply finding a moment of peace. The teachings here are presented as a lived experience, emphasizing that a clearer, more compassionate life is built through small, consistent insights rather than grand revelations. Tune in when you need a thoughtful pause or a practical nudge toward a more balanced and fulfilling day.
Author: Language: en-us Episodes: 100

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