The source of our pain - Desirous Attachment

The source of our pain - Desirous Attachment

Author: Kadampa Buddhism April 21, 2025 Duration: 20:13
In this inspiring talk, Gen Gomlam explores the difference between love and attachment, revealing how attachment—often mistaken for love—can quietly sabotage our relationships. With warmth and clarity, she shows us that attachment isn’t our ally; it’s actually the hidden poison eroding connection and harmony. But there’s good news: Gen Gomlam introduces a simple shift in mindset that allows us to let go of attachment while deepening genuine love. This transformation feels almost magical, changing the way we see ourselves and others—and opening the door to more joyful, authentic relationships. This is an extract of a talk given at KMC Florida based on the book How to Understand the Mind by Geshe Kelsang Gyatso

There's a particular kind of quiet that comes not from silence, but from understanding. Living Clarity is an invitation into that space, guided by the practical wisdom of Kadampa Buddhism. Each episode feels less like a lecture and more like a conversation about how ancient principles meet the noise of contemporary life-managing stress, finding focus in a distracted world, and cultivating a genuine sense of well-being that touches both mind and body. You'll hear guided meditations that are accessible whether you're sitting on a cushion or during a lunch break, alongside discussions that break down philosophical ideas into tools for everyday resilience. This podcast, presented by Kadampa Buddhism, operates at the intersection of personal health and spiritual inquiry, suggesting that clarity isn't a distant goal but a way of moving through your daily routines with more intention and less friction. It’s for anyone curious about how a centuries-old tradition can offer fresh perspectives on modern challenges, from relationships to personal fitness goals to simply finding a moment of peace. The teachings here are presented as a lived experience, emphasizing that a clearer, more compassionate life is built through small, consistent insights rather than grand revelations. Tune in when you need a thoughtful pause or a practical nudge toward a more balanced and fulfilling day.
Author: Language: en-us Episodes: 100

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