Open-hearted Conservative Christian – Deana Thayer

Open-hearted Conservative Christian – Deana Thayer

Author: Meli Solomon, the Talking with God Project April 28, 2022 Duration: 38:26

Episode 10.
Being a committed Evangelical Christian means living by example every day, not just on Sunday morning at her non-denominational church. Deana seeks to live the biblical precepts and inspire curiosity through example. As a life-long Christian with beliefs on the conservative side, having word and deed be shaped by scripture is what she’s always known.  

Her surety of belief provides a basis for interaction with people following other paths.  She welcomes the conversation and questions, as they either confirm her beliefs or prompt re-evaluation.  

Thoughtful guidance shows up in her podcast and her work with blended families, where the ‘inside’ blood relatives and ‘outside’ step people gradually find their places and become one family.  This takes time and dedication, but the parts do blend into one family.


Highlights of episode:
·       What it means to her to be a non-denominational evangelical Christian.

·       Living by example every day, not just on Sunday morning.

·       Challenges of parenting a blended family.  It takes time and effort. 

·       Moving towards marriage intentionally, guided by biblical precepts.

·       The value, and challenge, of taking time to listen, be quiet and be present.

·       How faith is woven into her professional life – comfort in Christian settings and growth through sensitivity in mixed settings. 

·       How to have civil dialogue across difference – listen and learn. 

·       Having steadfast faith yet being open to others. Confidence allows for questions.

 
Quotes:
“There's a cliché that you're the only sermon that some people will ever hear, or you're the only Bible some people will ever read. And so I really want to convey that with my life more, and then be invited into the conversation.”

 “I really like to let my life do the talking whenever possible.” 

“It's been great living out my faith in a capacity where it's super comfortable and I'm surrounded by it, but also living it out in a place where I do have to be more careful and gentle.”


 “So what I'm hearing Deana, is that what supports openness and connection with people who are different is a willingness to listen and learn.”


Reference:
See episode #5. Cathy Sirvatka – Faith in Jesus, for the alternate description of being evangelical that is referenced in this episode.

Social Media links for Deana:
Future Focused Parenting website ­– https://futurefocusedparenting.com
Facebook and Instagram – @futurefocusedparenting 

Social Media links for Méli:
Email – info@talkingwithgodproject.org
LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/melisolomon/
Talking with God Project –  https://www.talkingwithgodproject.org

Follow the podcast!
The Living Our Beliefs podcast offers a place to learn about other religions and faith practices. When you hear about how observant Christians, Jews and Muslims live their faith, new ideas and questions arise:  Is your way similar or different?  Is there an idea or practice that you want to explore?  Understanding how other people live opens your mind and heart to new people you meet.     


Comments? Questions? Email Meli at:
info@talkingwithgodproject.org

The Living Our Beliefs podcast is part of the Talking with God Project


Hosted by Meli Solomon of the Talking with God Project, Living Our Beliefs: Exploring Faith & Religion in Daily Life is a conversation about the practical realities of spiritual life. This podcast moves beyond abstract theology to examine how ancient traditions from Judaism, Islam, and other spiritual paths actually inform our modern routines, decisions, and relationships. Each episode delves into the nuanced spaces where belief meets action, exploring the challenges and rewards of aligning deeply held values with everyday behavior. You'll hear from a variety of voices discussing how they navigate this integration, whether through ritual, ethical choices, or community engagement. The discussions are grounded in real-life experience, focusing on the tangible ways faith provides meaning, fosters connection, and shapes identity in a contemporary context. Rather than offering simple answers, this series invites reflection on the ongoing, personal work of weaving spiritual principles into the fabric of daily existence. It’s for anyone curious about how others live out their convictions and seeking inspiration for their own journey toward a more coherent and purposeful life, all through thoughtful, accessible dialogue.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 101

Living Our Beliefs: Exploring Faith & Religion in Daily Life
Podcast Episodes
How Faith Can Evolve Through Change – Aaron Solberg [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 32:52
Episode 98. (replay of Episode 78)Over the last two episodes with Judith Pajo and Zeyneb Sayilgan, we’ve talked quite a bit about faith challenges and dealing with changes in life that impact religious practice. Those ch…
Grief as a Sacred Opening – Zeyneb Sayilgan [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 44:26
Episode 97. Burying a child is an unimaginable trauma that no parent should have to face. My guest today, Zeyneb Sayilgan, has sadly needed to endure that pain and grief twice. Through it all, her Muslim faith has sustai…
Embracing Oneness: Jewish Mysticism in Practice – Lex Rofeberg [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 49:30
Episode 95. What comes to mind when you hear the term mysticism? Perhaps you imagine a yogi sitting cross legged in meditation, or people sitting in a circle chanting. Several religions have mystical practices, Sufism in…
Forging a more Resilient Faith After Doubt – Aubrey Chaves [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 37:51
Episode 93. Did you grow up in a highly observant home and religious community where surety of belief was the norm? Aubrey Chaves did, and much as she felt embraced by the family’s deep engagement within their Mormon con…
Building Peace Through Interfaith Dialogue – Raphael Luzon [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 39:27
Episode 92. Jews had lived in Libya since the third century BCE, but 1967 marked their final expulsion from the majority Muslim country. Raphael Luzon was a child at the time and fled with his family. Like many, they wen…