Lost Spaces: Memories from Gay Bars, Lesbian Clubs, and LGBTQ+ Parties

Lost Spaces: Memories from Gay Bars, Lesbian Clubs, and LGBTQ+ Parties

Author: lost queer spaces Language: English Episodes: 100
Lost Spaces: Memories from Gay Bars, Lesbian Clubs, and LGBTQ+ Parties is a series of intimate conversations about the venues and parties that have served as crucial backdrops for queer life. Host K Anderson guides each episode with a gentle curiosity, focusing on a single guest’s personal connection to a place that no longer exists in the same way. These are not dry historical accounts, but vivid, emotional recollections. You’ll hear about the specific bar where someone first felt seen, the underground club that provided a sanctuary, or the party where a community solidified. The discussions naturally delve into how these environments fostered identity, provided safety, and built the networks that define so many LGBTQ+ lives. This podcast operates on the understanding that a physical space is often the container for our most formative experiences-first kisses, political awakenings, chosen families. By documenting these lost spaces through personal narrative, the show archives a living history of queer culture that exists beyond official records. The tone is reflective and often poignant, as guests explore not just what these places were, but what their absence means. It’s about the lingering impact of a closed door, and how the memories forged in those rooms continue to resonate. Listening feels like being part of a necessary preservation project, one story at a time, highlighting why these communal hubs were, and remain, vital to health and well-being. Each episode is a specific journey into a memory, making the broader point about collective loss and resilience without ever needing to state it outright.
Episodes
'That's Where Cruising Tends To Happen...' - with Marcus McCann [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 43:56
So, this week we’re doing something a little different. Rather than visit a lost space we’re setting out to answer the question ‘is the ancient art of cruising about to be lost?’. I know that's a fairly dramatic question…
'Every Letter Of The Alphabet Mafia...' - with Karl Dunn [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 49:08
LA. Los Angeles. City of Angels. It's not really known to be the easiest of towns to live in. But, i think that's part of what makes it so exciting, right? Not to completely plagiarise a popular song, but if you can make…
'I Felt That Way About Pulse' - with JJ Ivey [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 44:44
So, if you're reading these show notes I'm going to go ahead and make the assumption that you know about the Pulse nightclub shooting that happened in Orlando in 2016. And I'm also going to assume that you've heard some…
'I Didn't Have Any Gay Friends' - with Rudy Jeevanjee [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 43:00
I've been thinking a lot lately about how your life can just happen to you. And, if you're not careful you can wake up one day wondering how you ended up there. But then, there are times when we take the bull by the horn…
'Where Do Lesbians Go For Fun?' - with Layne the Auctionista [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 47:32
I love hearing people's stories of places that are close to their hearts - places where they spent tonnes of time, met lots of wonderful people, and figured out things about themselves. But, you know what else I love? Wh…
'Disco 2000 Was The Hub Of The Club Kids Scene' - with Abdi Nazemian [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:05:46
So, if you were to ask me to overly generalise and boil down the types of experiences that guests on this show have had when first accessing a queer space I'd say they neatly fit in to two categories: 1) there are those…
'I Can't Be Gay Because I'm Christian...' - with Dr Luke Wilson [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:10:50
We seem to have, in the last few months, had a lot of religious guests, and through that we've had a lot of conversations about how religiosity can be in direct conflict with queerness, and all the issues that that can c…
'This Kid's Probably Gay...' - with Matt Fishel [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 45:58
Can you really call yourself queer if you don't have a weird love/hate relationship with your home town? Because even if you love the place that you're from and you had an idyllic childhood there's still that reckoning t…