How to Become Influential: Everyday Leadership That Creates Change | E479

How to Become Influential: Everyday Leadership That Creates Change | E479

Author: Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby October 16, 2025 Duration: 48:41
You know that feeling when you look around at the news, your job, your relationships, and everything feels a little out of control? Like no matter what you do, it’s never enough to really make a difference? I get it. So many of us are carrying that quiet sense of powerlessness right now. But here’s the thing: you have more influence than you realize. You’ve just never been shown how to use it. In this episode, I’m talking with Cynthia Rivard, business strategist, and author of A New Breed of Leader, about what it truly means to become influential. Not in the “stand at the front of the room” kind of way, but in the real, human way that changes how you show up for yourself, your relationships, and your community. We’re getting into influential leadership as a way of life - how to lead from within, ripple change outward, and shift from helplessness to hope through small, intentional action. This isn’t about being in charge, but about being conscious, compassionate, and brave enough to start where you are. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Why We Feel Powerless & How to Become Influential 03:22 Redefining Leadership: Everyday Influence & Micro Leadership 05:05 Ripple Effects: How Small Actions Shape Others 11:28 Building Trust as the Core of Influential Leadership 13:11 Staying Grounded in Conflict & Division 23:52 Compassionate vs. Authoritative Leadership 25:00 Vision and Action: Breaking Free from Inaction 31:45 Overcoming Analysis Paralysis with Micro Actions 39:03 Enrolling Others in Your Vision 43:29 Key Takeaways on Influential Leadership   If you’ve been feeling ready to show up differently in your relationships, your work, or your life, I’d love to support you as you start putting that influence into action. You can schedule a free consultation with me or a member of my team. It’s a private, supportive space where you can share what’s been on your mind, whether that’s building confidence, finding your voice, or learning how to lead your life with intention. We’ll help you get matched with the right expert so you can move forward feeling clear, encouraged, and hopeful. I’d also love to stay connected beyond the podcast. You can find me on Instagram, Facebook, or YouTube, where I share stories, reflections, and gentle reminders to help you stay intentional as you lead your own life. And if something from this conversation really hit home, tell me about it - I’d love to hear how you’re using your influence out in the world. Let’s keep this conversation going! xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self

You’re not alone in wanting more from your life and relationships, and that’s exactly where Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby meets you. Hosted by therapist and coach Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, this podcast feels like a thoughtful conversation with a wise friend who also happens to be an expert. Each episode delves into the real, sometimes messy work of building a better life, whether you're navigating communication in a partnership, seeking to heal from past hurt, or looking for practical ways to manage your emotions and stress. The discussions are grounded in both compassion and evidence-based strategies, moving beyond simple advice to explore the underlying patterns that shape our well-being. By listening, you’ll find actionable insights for fostering deeper emotional intimacy, overcoming the obstacles that keep you stuck, and cultivating genuine personal growth. It’s a resource for anyone ready to do the meaningful work of creating more love, health, and fulfillment in their daily existence. Tune in for a blend of guidance and genuine support that makes the journey toward success feel not only possible but understandable.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
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