When Politics Rips Couples Apart

When Politics Rips Couples Apart

Author: Jerry Sander, LCSW & Kristy Gaisford, LCSW September 11, 2022 Duration: 43:23
Send us Fan Mail Jerry & Kristy discuss the growing trend of angry politics ripping couples apart and testing their relationships as the media around them continue to provoke people to ever-rising levels of division. Alternatives are considered.

What does it really take to build a relationship that lasts? LoveWork: Skills for a Relational Life doesn’t offer quick fixes or fairy tales. Instead, therapists Jerry Sander and Kristy Gaisford bring a grounded, practical perspective to the complexities of intimacy, drawn from their own lived experiences. Both have navigated marriage, divorce, and then found fulfilling second marriages, and they openly discuss the realities of blending families-Kristy, for instance, helps parent four step-children alongside her own four. This isn't abstract theory; it's wisdom forged in the trenches of real life. In each episode, they explore the nuanced skills required for connection, from communication and conflict to vulnerability and joy. You’ll hear candid conversations that honor both the struggles and the profound rewards of committed partnership. Their professional expertise as licensed clinical social workers merges with personal honesty, creating a space that feels both informative and deeply relatable. This podcast is for anyone who believes relationships require effort but doesn’t want to lose the heart in the hard work. Tune in for honest dialogue that might just change how you show up for the people you love.
Author: Language: en-us Episodes: 81

LoveWork: Skills for a Relational Life
Podcast Episodes
Am I Crazy? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 49:44
Send us Fan Mail Do you ever feel strongly at emotional odds with most things around you? And then whether or not you are off-your-rocker and possibly The Problem because of being crazy? Just....different from others, in…
Religious Upbringings [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 48:44
Send us Fan Mail Our religious upbringings -- or non-religious upbringings -- can have implications and repercussions for our later intimate relationships, the likes of which we likely hadn't considered. Jerry & Kristy d…
Rewriting (Relationship) History [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 42:13
Send us Fan Mail Kristy & Jerry consider what happens when we, for one reason or another, remember only certain aspects of our most important relationships. We deny, or ignore, important things at a cost; recovery of all…
Birthdays & Anniversaries [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 38:51
Send us Fan Mail What's it like for you to be in a couple and to celebrate these special occasions? Or...not? What happens, for the couple, when these days roll around and either are celebrated, ignored or recognized in…
The Fine Line Between Letting Things Go & Enabling [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 52:32
Send us Fan Mail Kristy and Jerry untangle the thorny areas in which personal boundaries seem to be challenged by our partner's desire to control us, when -- in fact -- it is often about emotional needs we can all relate…
Having a Baby [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 49:06
Send us Fan Mail Adding an additional person to your household offers unique challenges and rewards for a couple, but undeniably is one of the most profound relationship shifts you'll undergo in your lives together. Kris…
Just How Much Intimacy Do I Really Want? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 45:51
Send us Fan Mail Jerry and Kristy wrestle with the reality that every couple has different levels of desire when it comes to ongoing closeness and intimacy. Like so many other markers of social and emotional health, inti…
Blinded By My Hurt [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 44:07
Send us Fan Mail We all know THOSE kind of arguments; when one of us just will not give in, because giving in means giving up and conceding defeat in what feels like a life-and-death battle. But when we consider it at a…
Being Happy When Your Partner Isn't [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 42:58
Send us Fan Mail Kristy and Jerry consider the awkward dynamics that can ensue when partners aren't aligned in their levels of happiness or sadness on any given day, week or month. What, exactly, is your level of "respon…
Getting Your Self-Esteem From Social Media [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 43:53
Send us Fan Mail Jerry & Kristy consider what happens when the primary source of our self-esteem comes from our social media applications. What are the implications for our relationships?