254. 4 Rules for Influencing How Your Clients Show Up

254. 4 Rules for Influencing How Your Clients Show Up

Author: Lindsay Dotzlaf September 9, 2025 Duration: 26:26

This disconnect between how we think clients should behave and how they actually show up is something I see coaches struggle with constantly - whether they're brand new or have been coaching for years. We create these unspoken rules and expectations for our clients, then feel disappointed when they don't follow them.

 

The truth is, your clients' behavior isn't about you - it's about them being human. And the good news? You have way more influence over how your clients show up than you think. Through the four simple strategies I share in this episode, you can help your clients become better at being clients while also examining your own patterns and assumptions.

 

Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://www.lindsaydotzlafcoaching.com/254


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