Ep. 54 - Banish the Bully in Your Brain: Dr. Betsy Holmberg on How to Silence the Unkind Mind

Ep. 54 - Banish the Bully in Your Brain: Dr. Betsy Holmberg on How to Silence the Unkind Mind

Author: Local Moms Network October 21, 2025 Duration: 31:22
Moms, don’t believe everything you think!Neuroscience proves that the critical voice in your head, or that of your child, is just a default mode-and knowing this can be life changing.Our guest today is psychologist Dr. Betsy Holmberg, author of Unkind Mind, who teaches us how to flip the switch on negative self talk. Dr. Betsy builds up our superpower to recognize this nagging voice and shut it up:*  understand why we’re so hard on ourselves and then catch ourselves when we fall into a judgy mode* learn the science behind two parts of our brain: the Default Mode Network (DMN) and the Central Executive Network (CEN)* the personal struggles that inspired Dr. Betsy to uncover the research and change the course of her own life* our power to explain these strategies to our kids and give them tools to quiet their own inner critic* how to stop ruminating in its tracks, allowing for clearer decision-making and better sleepTo learn about Dr. Betsy Holmberg, head to her website and find her on Instagram @betsyholmbergFind us at www.thelocalmomsnetwork.comIG: @thelocalmomsnetworkEmail: demetra@thelocalmomsnetwork.com

Hosted by Demetra Ganias-a writer and mother of three who’s navigating the same daily realities-MomCast is a conversation from the trenches of modern parenting. This podcast, from the Local Moms Network, moves beyond simple tips to explore the nuanced, often unspoken layers of family life, culture, and society that shape our days. Demetra guides honest talks with both leading experts and fellow moms who get it, tackling questions about child development, personal identity, and the balancing act that rarely feels balanced. The dialogue here is less about perfect answers and more about shared understanding, offering perspectives that resonate whether you’re in the car line or stealing a quiet moment. It’s a space where the complexities of raising kids intersect with everything else, acknowledging that motherhood is as much about the world we’re preparing our children for as it is about the snack currently ground into the car seat. Tune in for a genuine, sometimes messy, but always connecting look at this defining chapter. You’ll find a sense of community in this podcast, a feeling that someone is putting words to your own experience, making the journey feel a little less solitary and a lot more seen.
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