"My in-laws are sponging off me - how do I stop them?"

"My in-laws are sponging off me - how do I stop them?"

Author: The Telegraph June 12, 2024 Duration: 35:13

John's* brother-in-law moved in for a couple of months. He didn't move out for 5 years...


On today's episode - how much do we owe our in-laws? Following an anonymous letters from someone who's worried at the level of financial support their partner is giving to their mother mother-in-law, Katie Morley hits the road to speak to 'John' to see what can happen if you give someone an inch, and they take a mile. also in the episode, professional mediator Becs Dhillon on what other families facing similar situations could do and the Telegraph's chief reporter, Rob Mendick, chiming in with some rather unconventional advice...


*Name has been changed.


If you want help or know someone who would benefit from professional mediation, please head to becsdhillon.com.


✍️ Need your awkward money problem solved? Email Katie on moneyconfidential@telegraph.co.uk or leave a voicenote on Whatsapp - 07892793324. You can also fill in the form here: https://telegraph.co.uk/moneyconfidential. It can be 100% confidential!

💰 Discover more of our leading Money journalism: telegraph.co.uk/money

📰 Subscribe to the Telegraph here: https://telegraph.co.uk/moneypodcast

💬 Follow Katie Morley on Instagram: @MoneyBackMorley


Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.


Money Confidential with Katie Morley is a podcast that digs into the real financial dilemmas people face but are often too awkward or private to discuss out loud. Hosted by The Telegraph's Consumer Champion, Katie Morley, who has a track record of winning millions in compensation for readers, this series moves beyond the headlines to explore the personal side of money. Each episode tackles a specific, thorny question sent in by listeners, from family disputes over inheritance and the etiquette of adult children living rent-free, to the social pressures of keeping up with wealthier friends or the true cost and value of private education. The conversations here are grounded in real stories, blending elements of society, culture, relationships, and even the subtle tensions that can feel like true crime within families. You'll hear Katie engage directly with people's situations, offering her seasoned perspective while facilitating honest talk that seeks practical clarity over simple judgment. This podcast provides a confidential space where the messy, emotional, and frequently unspoken rules about money are finally brought into the open.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 16

Money Confidential with Katie Morley
Podcast Episodes
"Am I wrong to take my kids out of school for a cheaper holiday?" [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 30:08
Is taking children out of school during term time financially savvy or just selfish parenting? In today's episode, Katie chats to "Louise" who is one of 350,000 parents taking their children out of school during term tim…
"Is private school worth the financial sacrifice?" [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 37:36
How far would you go to afford private school for your children... and is it even worth it? In this episode, Katie hears from "Lucy" who is stuck on whether to send her children to private school. To find answers, Katie…
"I'm so jealous of my richer siblings who don't invite me skiing" [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 39:27
In this episode, Katie chats to “Poppy” who is struggling with the wealth gap between herself and her siblings. However, Katie also discovers a dysfunctional penchant for posh purses is wreaking havoc with Poppy's financ…
"I'm fed up with my adult child living at home - I'm moving out". [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 32:34
Would you let your adult child move back home and not pay rent? As the housing market becomes more unaffordable, many adults are not only relying on the bank of mum and dad, but the house of mum and dad, with reports sug…
Introducing: Money Confidential with Katie Morley [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:20
Real people, real problems, real talk. Katie Morley, The Telegraph's Consumer Champion, has won back £10 million in compensation for readers. Now, she's hitting the road for a brand new podcast, Money Confidential, to he…