E204: Are You a Good Mom? The Gift of Presence in Joyful or Joyless Motherhood

E204: Are You a Good Mom? The Gift of Presence in Joyful or Joyless Motherhood

Author: Patricia Sung | ADHD Coach for Moms with ADHD August 31, 2023 Duration: 19:08

How many times have you questioned whether you are a "good mom"?

In the last 2 months, I've asked myself this at least 4000 times. This summer did not go as expected which made me doubt if I'm being a good mom.

Am I spending enough time with my boys?

Am I putting my phone down and paying attention when they talk?

Am I making my kids a priority over endless stress and anxious thoughts swirling around my head? 

Here's some wise advice I received recently from an older, more experienced mom, on how to deal with challenging decisions and seasons. Plus, I'm sharing what is working for me to keep my head above the water and continue paddling (upstream) right now. 

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Find links to everything mentioned in this episode & read the transcript here:  https://www.patriciasung.com/podcast/episode-204-how-to-be-a-good-mom

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Ever feel like you're running a marathon with no finish line in sight, while everyone else seems to be on a leisurely stroll? That mental clutter, the constant search for your keys, the guilt over forgotten appointments-it's not a personal failing. It's often the lived experience of motherhood when you're also navigating adult ADHD. Motherhood in ADHD is a space created specifically for that reality. Hosted by Patricia Sung, an ADHD coach who gets it because she lives it, this podcast digs into the intersection of a neurodivergent brain and the demands of raising a family. You'll find conversations that move beyond simple tips, offering brain-based science and practical strategies tailored for moms whose minds work differently. Episodes explore how to structure your days in a way that works with your ADHD, not against it, and rethink parenting approaches to reduce overwhelm for both you and your kids. It’s about education that leads to self-compassion, replacing shame with understanding. Tune in for honest talk about productivity that actually sticks, managing mental health, and building systems that acknowledge your unique wiring. This is more than just a podcast; it’s a companion for redefining what success looks like in your home and in your mind, helping you move from barely coping to truly thriving.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

Motherhood in ADHD – Parenting with ADHD, Productivity Tips, Brain based Science, Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder Education to Help Moms with Adult ADHD
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