E218: Finding Calm in the Chaos: Holiday Self-Care Tips

E218: Finding Calm in the Chaos: Holiday Self-Care Tips

Author: Patricia Sung | ADHD Coach for Moms with ADHD December 7, 2023 Duration: 34:21

It's here again… that awful feeling: I'm behind.

You swore this year you'd print those adorable Christmas cards with your family's smiling faces in front of a glowing tree, but it's December and you haven't even started. 

Your friends are sending you theirs, and just seeing them makes you feel guilty. 

You're scrambling to shop for presents online, wondering how you're going to fit it into your budget. 

And that damn elf on the shelf?

Hasn't moved for days. 

Mama, the holidays are a stressful time for most people. 

But the truth is, it doesn't have to be quite this bad. 

If you're feeling behind, and like you can't rest because there just.isn't.time… this episode is for you. 

We talk about:

  • How to clean up after the holidays without feeling overwhelmed

  • Why you feel "behind" and what to do about it

  • Relearning how to rest, when adulting made you forget

  • How to make time to recharge when there just isn't any time

There's no law that says holidays have to be hard. Join me in choosing calm over chaos this year. 

Find links to everything mentioned in this episode & read the transcript here: https://www.patriciasung.com/podcast/episode-218-holiday-self-care.

The cure to your holiday hangover: quick & easy steps to get your home back to its normal level of chaos after the holidays!

https://www.patriciasung.com/holiday-hangover

 

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Ever feel like you're running a marathon with no finish line in sight, while everyone else seems to be on a leisurely stroll? That mental clutter, the constant search for your keys, the guilt over forgotten appointments-it's not a personal failing. It's often the lived experience of motherhood when you're also navigating adult ADHD. Motherhood in ADHD is a space created specifically for that reality. Hosted by Patricia Sung, an ADHD coach who gets it because she lives it, this podcast digs into the intersection of a neurodivergent brain and the demands of raising a family. You'll find conversations that move beyond simple tips, offering brain-based science and practical strategies tailored for moms whose minds work differently. Episodes explore how to structure your days in a way that works with your ADHD, not against it, and rethink parenting approaches to reduce overwhelm for both you and your kids. It’s about education that leads to self-compassion, replacing shame with understanding. Tune in for honest talk about productivity that actually sticks, managing mental health, and building systems that acknowledge your unique wiring. This is more than just a podcast; it’s a companion for redefining what success looks like in your home and in your mind, helping you move from barely coping to truly thriving.
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