E257: I Love You But I Don't Like You: Supporting ADHD Relationships

E257: I Love You But I Don't Like You: Supporting ADHD Relationships

Author: Patricia Sung | ADHD Coach for Moms with ADHD February 6, 2025 Duration: 19:59

You chose this person for a reason. You love them.

Aaaaand relationships are complicated. Sometimes you may not LIKE your partner as much as you love them.

Adding ADHD in the mix is more than another layer of complexity to your relationship, whether it affects you, your partner, or both.

As Valentine's Day approaches, here's a clip from Successful Mama Meetups during our month theme "I love you, but I don't like you". I'm sharing supportive strategies for fostering strong, loving connections. Understanding ADHD's impact on your relationships makes a huge difference in how you interact together and stay together.

I'm adding a relationship twist on my three foundational principles: learning about ADHD, taking care of yourself, and asking for help. Strong loving relationships are possible for ADHDers, too!

Let's discuss!

 

Find links to everything mentioned in this episode & read the transcript here: https://www.patriciasung.com/podcast/episode-257-adhd-relationship-support

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Ever feel like you're running a marathon with no finish line in sight, while everyone else seems to be on a leisurely stroll? That mental clutter, the constant search for your keys, the guilt over forgotten appointments-it's not a personal failing. It's often the lived experience of motherhood when you're also navigating adult ADHD. Motherhood in ADHD is a space created specifically for that reality. Hosted by Patricia Sung, an ADHD coach who gets it because she lives it, this podcast digs into the intersection of a neurodivergent brain and the demands of raising a family. You'll find conversations that move beyond simple tips, offering brain-based science and practical strategies tailored for moms whose minds work differently. Episodes explore how to structure your days in a way that works with your ADHD, not against it, and rethink parenting approaches to reduce overwhelm for both you and your kids. It’s about education that leads to self-compassion, replacing shame with understanding. Tune in for honest talk about productivity that actually sticks, managing mental health, and building systems that acknowledge your unique wiring. This is more than just a podcast; it’s a companion for redefining what success looks like in your home and in your mind, helping you move from barely coping to truly thriving.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 50

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