E258: Reset After a Meltdown or Total Shutdown

E258: Reset After a Meltdown or Total Shutdown

Author: Patricia Sung | ADHD Coach for Moms with ADHD February 20, 2025 Duration: 18:30

When you're hiding in the bathroom in a puddle of tears on the floor, what do you do next?

 

When you've yelled at your family and said things you regret during a grownup temper tantrum and wish you could hide under a rock forever, what do you do next?

 

When the shame and guilt and overwhelm feel like too much to bear, what do you do now?

It's so common for those of us with ADHD to get overwhelmed and shutdown or say things we regret.

Here's a clip from Successful Mama Meetups during our month themed "Your Reset Button (How to reset after a total shutdown or meltdown)" because the mamas requested this topic. You're not alone in this.

I'm sharing supportive strategies for dealing with stress and moving forward when it feels hopeless or impossible. Understanding ADHD's impact on your emotional regulation makes a huge difference in how you deal with stress.

Big hugs.  Let's talk about it.

 

Find links to everything mentioned in this episode & read the transcript here: https://www.patriciasung.com/podcast/episode-258-reset-after-adhd-meltdown-shutdown

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When you feel anger rising, how can you find calm and stay present in the moment?

Hit play on Slow Down, Be Present: a calming audio private podcast for both sleep and anxiety. It's only $9. Snag yours here: patriciasung.com/slowdown

 

 

Rooted Group Coaching for ADHD Moms is enrolling for next month. Learn how to deal with your emotions with ADHD friendly skills you can teach your kids, too. Join here: patriciasung.com/group

 

Free Video and Checklist → Stop Medusa Mom: 10 Ways to Calm Down


Ever feel like you're running a marathon with no finish line in sight, while everyone else seems to be on a leisurely stroll? That mental clutter, the constant search for your keys, the guilt over forgotten appointments-it's not a personal failing. It's often the lived experience of motherhood when you're also navigating adult ADHD. Motherhood in ADHD is a space created specifically for that reality. Hosted by Patricia Sung, an ADHD coach who gets it because she lives it, this podcast digs into the intersection of a neurodivergent brain and the demands of raising a family. You'll find conversations that move beyond simple tips, offering brain-based science and practical strategies tailored for moms whose minds work differently. Episodes explore how to structure your days in a way that works with your ADHD, not against it, and rethink parenting approaches to reduce overwhelm for both you and your kids. It’s about education that leads to self-compassion, replacing shame with understanding. Tune in for honest talk about productivity that actually sticks, managing mental health, and building systems that acknowledge your unique wiring. This is more than just a podcast; it’s a companion for redefining what success looks like in your home and in your mind, helping you move from barely coping to truly thriving.
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