E260: Are You Lazy and Procrastinating or Prioritizing for Later?

E260: Are You Lazy and Procrastinating or Prioritizing for Later?

Author: Patricia Sung | ADHD Coach for Moms with ADHD March 20, 2025 Duration: 17:39

HOT TAKE: I don't believe people with ADHD are lazy. There is a reason that they don't want to or can't do the thing, and when you untangle that obstacle, voila! It's easier to get things done.

How do you know the difference between procrastinating and prioritizing for later?

There are some things in life we can't avoid, so how do you deal with them?

How do you know when it truly is not the time for certain tasks and feel okay setting them aside without worrying if you'll never remember them again?

Here's a clip from Successful Mama Meetups during our month themed "Procrastination or Burnout? (How to tell the difference between when you need rest & when you're avoiding something)" because the mamas requested this topic. You're not alone in this.

I'm sharing supportive strategies for dealing with too many tasks – many of them unappealing – and not enough time to do them all. Understanding ADHD's impact on prioritizing makes a huge difference in how you deal with the never-ending to do list of adulting and parenting. 

Let's dive in!

Find links to everything mentioned in this episode & read the transcript here: https://www.patriciasung.com/podcast/episode-260-adhd-lazy-procrastinating-or-prioritizing

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Ever feel like you're running a marathon with no finish line in sight, while everyone else seems to be on a leisurely stroll? That mental clutter, the constant search for your keys, the guilt over forgotten appointments-it's not a personal failing. It's often the lived experience of motherhood when you're also navigating adult ADHD. Motherhood in ADHD is a space created specifically for that reality. Hosted by Patricia Sung, an ADHD coach who gets it because she lives it, this podcast digs into the intersection of a neurodivergent brain and the demands of raising a family. You'll find conversations that move beyond simple tips, offering brain-based science and practical strategies tailored for moms whose minds work differently. Episodes explore how to structure your days in a way that works with your ADHD, not against it, and rethink parenting approaches to reduce overwhelm for both you and your kids. It’s about education that leads to self-compassion, replacing shame with understanding. Tune in for honest talk about productivity that actually sticks, managing mental health, and building systems that acknowledge your unique wiring. This is more than just a podcast; it’s a companion for redefining what success looks like in your home and in your mind, helping you move from barely coping to truly thriving.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 50

Motherhood in ADHD – Parenting with ADHD, Productivity Tips, Brain based Science, Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder Education to Help Moms with Adult ADHD
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