E268: This Season Is Hard, But Your Tears Aren't Wasted

E268: This Season Is Hard, But Your Tears Aren't Wasted

Author: Patricia Sung | ADHD Coach for Moms with ADHD June 26, 2025 Duration: 27:07

Ten weeks. Fifty-five thousand words to go. One big, messy dream. 

I'm officially writing a book, and I'm on a serious countdown. But let's be real, life isn't made up of word counts and deadlines. This season is stretching me in ways I didn't expect, and I'm reminded (again) how hard it is for me to ask for help. So I'm uncomfortably practicing that skill.

In this episode, I'm sharing the behind-the-scenes reality of what it looks like to chase a giant goal as a mom with ADHD. From reworking my timeline and outsourcing laundry to crying on the front curb, this story gets personal. You'll hear how a season of grief, a loving husband, and a research fund created ripple effects that showed up in the most unexpected way over 20 years later. 

We often don't get to see how it all comes together, but this week I got a glimmer of hope and encouragement.

If you've ever questioned whether your hard season means anything… this one's for you. You don't need a book deal to matter. Your efforts, your tears, your small wins, they all count.

Need some hope today? Come sit with me in the mess. Let's find the meaning together.

Find links to everything mentioned in this episode & read the transcript here: https://www.patriciasung.com/podcast/episode-268-this-season-is-hard-tears-not-wasted

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Ever feel like you're running a marathon with no finish line in sight, while everyone else seems to be on a leisurely stroll? That mental clutter, the constant search for your keys, the guilt over forgotten appointments-it's not a personal failing. It's often the lived experience of motherhood when you're also navigating adult ADHD. Motherhood in ADHD is a space created specifically for that reality. Hosted by Patricia Sung, an ADHD coach who gets it because she lives it, this podcast digs into the intersection of a neurodivergent brain and the demands of raising a family. You'll find conversations that move beyond simple tips, offering brain-based science and practical strategies tailored for moms whose minds work differently. Episodes explore how to structure your days in a way that works with your ADHD, not against it, and rethink parenting approaches to reduce overwhelm for both you and your kids. It’s about education that leads to self-compassion, replacing shame with understanding. Tune in for honest talk about productivity that actually sticks, managing mental health, and building systems that acknowledge your unique wiring. This is more than just a podcast; it’s a companion for redefining what success looks like in your home and in your mind, helping you move from barely coping to truly thriving.
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