Story time: My biggest REGRET in the swinger lifestyle (and what I’d do differently)

Story time: My biggest REGRET in the swinger lifestyle (and what I’d do differently)

Author: TorontoUnicorn April 14, 2026 Duration: 14:25
My biggest regret after years in the swinger lifestyle is not what you think. It is how long I waited to try it on my own. In this episode, I break down what it is really like to walk into a sex club alone, what nobody prepares you for, and the mindset shifts that will either make or break your experience. I share the exact advice I wish I had before I ever started, from handling the awkwardness of going alone to managing expectations so you do not walk in clueless and leave disappointed. If you are serious about exploring this lifestyle the right way, I have turned everything I have learned into step by step courses so you can skip the mistakes and get straight to the good part. 👉 https://levelupwithtorontounicorn.com 🎓 Courses Mentioned 00:00 - My biggest regret 03:10 - Single Women 04:20 - Single Men 05:41 - Threesomes 101 (for couples) 06:57 - Swinger Lifestyle --- If you have been curious, nervous, or stuck overthinking this lifestyle, this is your push. Stop waiting. Try the experience. --- Get 50% off a single course of your choice at ⁠Level Up with Toronto Unicorn ⁠using code: TUPODCAST50 ***** Sign up for my email newsletters to stay up-to-date on TorontoUnicorn news, events and swinger lifestyle resources: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://torontounicorn.kit.com/torontounicornemails⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ***** Content mentioned in this episode: 1. Story time: my first threesome: https://youtu.be/ff1b4PQhYzs ***** ALL social media links (YouTube, podcasts, fan page, etc): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/TorontoUnicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ DIRECT link to my explicit TorontoUnicorn fan page: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://OnlyFans.com/TorontoUnicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🎙️Did you know I have multiple uncensored podcasts? Links: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/TorontoUnicornPodcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Check out my swinger tips advice playlist: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLo4CCCnXmwlC96oniNVrnwLeQrDRW7Nou⁠⁠⁠⁠ -- Want to own something I wear, use, recommend or chuckle at? Check out my Amazon storefront! *affiliate links provide me with a small commission* 🇺🇸 Amazon storefront: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/torontounicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🇨🇦 Amazon storefront: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.ca/shop/torontounicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ***** Please rate this podcast 5 stars and leave a comment to help others discover it too :) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Step past the velvet rope and into a world often whispered about but rarely explored with such frankness. My REAL Sex Club and Swinger Lifestyle is exactly what it promises: a direct, unfiltered audio and video diary hosted by TorontoUnicorn. This isn't theoretical; it's a ground-level view built from personal vlogs, candid stories, and practical advice drawn from lived experience. The conversations here stretch far beyond just swinging, featuring interviews with a whole spectrum of sex-positive people-from the kinky and polyamorous to those rediscovering their sexuality-to paint a fuller picture of consensual, adult exploration. You'll hear about the real negotiations, the unexpected friendships, the occasional awkward moments, and the profound sense of community found in non-judgmental spaces. While the audio podcast delivers the full, intimate talk, many episodes are also produced in a dynamic video format, adding a visual layer to the stories and discussions. Think of it as an ongoing education in human connection and pleasure, minus the dogma. TorontoUnicorn's approach is rooted in raw honesty, making this podcast a unique resource for the curious, the seasoned, or anyone questioning mainstream narratives about relationships and sexuality. It’s about the lifestyle in practice, not just in theory.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

My REAL Sex Club and Swinger Lifestyle (vlogs, stories, advice, education) with TorontoUnicorn (video/short format)
Podcast Episodes
Meet the woman BEHIND TorontoUnicorn (diary vlog) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 7:59
WATCH on Spotify of YouTube: https://youtu.be/qCcYKmQt6KI ***** ALL social media links (YouTube, podcasts, fan page, etc): ⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/TorontoUnicorn⁠⁠ DIRECT link to my explicit TorontoUnicorn fan page: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…
Funny birthday cream pies and strong blunts 😎💨🥳🤣 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 7:41
WATCH on Spotify or YouTube: https://youtu.be/uvi5IzH2DTY ***** ALL social media links (YouTube, podcasts, fan page, etc): ⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/TorontoUnicorn⁠⁠ DIRECT link to my explicit TorontoUnicorn fan page: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…
Story time: I made a guy cry by trying to have SEX with him 👀 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 6:33
Watch on Spotify or YouTube: https://youtu.be/ESusrTE0LoU ***** ALL social media links (YouTube, podcasts, fan page, etc): ⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/TorontoUnicorn⁠⁠ DIRECT link to my explicit TorontoUnicorn fan page: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠…
Story time: The first time I ever had SEX 🍒 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 8:31
Watch on Spotify or YouTube: https://youtu.be/-Sk04-8Kxyc ***** Get your free Swinger Lifestyle Starter Kit - learn what to expect, common mistakes to avoid, and how to walk into a sex-positive space without feeling out…
Storytime: unicorn and the bull (at Oasis Aqualounge sex club) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 12:45
WATCH on Spotify or YouTube: https://youtu.be/tA5SWpIfI1A WATCH the vlog from the night I discuss here: https://youtu.be/ZTxHreTCs-E WATCH the "Romance at a sex club - the story of Colorado Boy" video here: https://youtu…