3 Toddler Sleep Mistakes (And How to Fix Them)

3 Toddler Sleep Mistakes (And How to Fix Them)

Author: Sally Woods and Bec Maher July 1, 2026 Duration: 40:13

Toddlers are relentless. They target your heartstrings, they push every boundary, and they will absolutely ask for a third bottle of milk at 2 AM just to see what happens. In this episode Sally and Bec break down the three most common toddler sleep mistakes they see every single day — and exactly how to course-correct without losing your mind.


What You'll Learn:


- Why milk feeds creep back in overnight and how reverse cycling happens with toddlers (not just babies)

- How to handle constant bedtime requests and delay tactics without feeding the cycle

- Why parent-led associations like couch sleep and cuddle-to-sleep come back after sickness or travel — and how to reset

- The bedtime pass strategy for school-aged kids with busy brains

- Why toddler tantrums are a developmental milestone, not a parenting failure

- How to hold a boundary at 2 AM when your willpower is firmly in your slippers


Chapters:

00:10 – Welcome and comment of the week

01:33 – Mistake 1: Milk feeds creeping back in overnight

05:03 – The reverse cycling trap and how it snowballs

10:40 – How to wean overnight milk with a clear plan

15:29 – Mistake 2: Constant requests to get out of bed

17:23 – Visual checklists and the bedtime pass strategy

23:44 – Why toddler tantrums are actually a milestone

31:32 – Mistake 3: Parent-led associations returning (cuddles, couch sleep)

33:44 – Not being in a rush to make sleep happen quickly

37:32 – Post-sickness and post-travel sleep resets

39:18 – The audit: environment, sleep pressure, settling technique


ABOUT NAP TRAPPED:

Nap Trapped is hosted by Sally Woods (The Sleep Concierge) and Bec Maher (The Sleep Centre) — two experienced sleep consultants who work with families around the world. They bring evidence-based guidance, warm realism and zero judgment to every episode.


Subscribe and never miss an episode: www.naptrappedpodcast.com


Links:

Sally – https://www.instagram.com/thesleepconcierge/

Bec – https://www.instagram.com/_thesleepcentre/


Ever found yourself stuck on the couch, scrolling in the quiet, while your little one finally sleeps? You're not alone, and that's exactly where Nap Trapped finds its groove. Hosted by Australian sleep consultants Sally Woods of The Sleep Concierge and Bec Maher from The Sleep Centre, this podcast meets you in that exhausted, sometimes isolating space. It’s a direct conversation between two experts who are also mums, blending solid, evidence-based strategies with the real-world chaos of family life. They break down the 'why' behind restless nights and short naps, moving beyond rigid rules to offer adaptable, practical solutions that actually fit your day. The tone is all solidarity and zero judgment, recognising that every family's sleep journey is different. You'll hear honest stories, debunk common myths, and get actionable advice that aims to bring more rest to your household, not just your baby. Tune into Nap Trapped for a genuinely helpful mix of professional insight and relatable commiseration, all delivered with a warm, Aussie sensibility. It's the kind of podcast you listen to while you're, well, nap trapped, and finish feeling equipped and understood.
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