Are We “Gentle”?

Are We “Gentle”?

Author: Sally Woods and Bec Maher June 30, 2025 Duration: 15:56

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What does gentle really mean in baby sleep? Is it helpful, is it marketing… or does it sometimes shame parents who do things differently? Sally and Bec open up about how they use (and don’t use) the word, how they choose techniques for each family, and why “gentle” shouldn’t be a weapon.

If you’ve ever wondered whether your approach is “gentle enough”, or felt judged for not doing things a certain way, this episode is for you.


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Nap Trapped brings together sleep consultants Sally Woods (⁠⁠The Sleep Concierge⁠⁠) and Bec Maher (⁠⁠The Sleep Centre⁠⁠) to transform baby sleep challenges into practical solutions. Whether you’re currently trapped under a napping baby or seeking better sleep, each episode combines evidence-based advice with real parenting experience. No judgement, just expert insights with a side of solidarity.

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Chapters

00:00 Welcome + why this topic is tricky

01:00 What the word “gentle” implies

02:30 Does gentle always mean no crying?

04:45 The shame spiral: when gentle gets weaponised

07:30 Real client stories about switching techniques

10:00 How temperament affects “gentle” methods

12:30 What we really do instead of labels

15:00 Final thoughts: what’s the opposite of gentle?


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Ever found yourself stuck on the couch, scrolling in the quiet, while your little one finally sleeps? You're not alone, and that's exactly where Nap Trapped finds its groove. Hosted by Australian sleep consultants Sally Woods of The Sleep Concierge and Bec Maher from The Sleep Centre, this podcast meets you in that exhausted, sometimes isolating space. It’s a direct conversation between two experts who are also mums, blending solid, evidence-based strategies with the real-world chaos of family life. They break down the 'why' behind restless nights and short naps, moving beyond rigid rules to offer adaptable, practical solutions that actually fit your day. The tone is all solidarity and zero judgment, recognising that every family's sleep journey is different. You'll hear honest stories, debunk common myths, and get actionable advice that aims to bring more rest to your household, not just your baby. Tune into Nap Trapped for a genuinely helpful mix of professional insight and relatable commiseration, all delivered with a warm, Aussie sensibility. It's the kind of podcast you listen to while you're, well, nap trapped, and finish feeling equipped and understood.
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