Busting the Myths: Spaced Feeding vs On Demand

Busting the Myths: Spaced Feeding vs On Demand

Author: Sally Woods and Bec Maher September 1, 2025 Duration: 26:15

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Is spaced feeding starving babies? Or does it actually create better sleep and calmer days? After seeing a viral TikTok about breastfeeding “on demand vs spaced,” Sally & Bec break down what’s really going on, with warmth, honesty, and a lot less smugness than the internet.

This is not about judging how you feed your baby. Whether you breastfeed, bottle feed, or combo feed, this episode explains why consolidating feeds (not dropping them) often helps babies tank up properly, nap better, and sleep longer at night.


What You’ll Learn:
• The difference between topping up vs tanking up• Why spaced feeding ≠ underfeeding• How bottle-fed babies get stuck in snack cycles (and how to fix it)• Why full feeds build appetite for solids and better naps• How spaced feeding works for breastfed babies too• The NICU truth: even the sickest babies are space fed


Chapters:00:00 Intro – Dinner vs movies & spicy margaritas06:03 The viral TikTok that ruffled our feathers07:25 The “two glasses of milk” demo explained09:22 Why the sip-sip-sip analogy is misleading12:49 Tanking up vs topping up explained15:32 Real client case: switching to 4-hourly feeds17:23 Why breastfed babies can thrive on spaced feeds20:30 How supply builds between feeds (and why that matters)22:38 Busting the myth: spaced feeding = starving24:43 Listener call-out – send us the myths you want busted25:59 Wrap-up


🎙️ ABOUT NAP TRAPPED
Hosted by sleep consultants Sally Woods (The Sleep Concierge) and Bec Maher (The Sleep Centre), Nap Trapped helps tired parents solve baby-sleep challenges with warmth, evidence, and no judgement. Every week we turn your questions into practical solutions—with a side of Aldi chocolate.

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Ever found yourself stuck on the couch, scrolling in the quiet, while your little one finally sleeps? You're not alone, and that's exactly where Nap Trapped finds its groove. Hosted by Australian sleep consultants Sally Woods of The Sleep Concierge and Bec Maher from The Sleep Centre, this podcast meets you in that exhausted, sometimes isolating space. It’s a direct conversation between two experts who are also mums, blending solid, evidence-based strategies with the real-world chaos of family life. They break down the 'why' behind restless nights and short naps, moving beyond rigid rules to offer adaptable, practical solutions that actually fit your day. The tone is all solidarity and zero judgment, recognising that every family's sleep journey is different. You'll hear honest stories, debunk common myths, and get actionable advice that aims to bring more rest to your household, not just your baby. Tune into Nap Trapped for a genuinely helpful mix of professional insight and relatable commiseration, all delivered with a warm, Aussie sensibility. It's the kind of podcast you listen to while you're, well, nap trapped, and finish feeling equipped and understood.
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