Surviving the 4-Month Sleep Regression | Baby Sleep Self-Settling Secrets

Surviving the 4-Month Sleep Regression | Baby Sleep Self-Settling Secrets

Author: Sally Woods and Bec Maher July 29, 2025 Duration: 29:26

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Your dreamy 12-week-old was logging eight-hour stretches… then BAM! night-wakings every 90 minutes, cat-naps on repeat, and a dummy you’re replacing all night long. Sound familiar? In this episode, sleep consultants Sally Woods and Bec Maher unpack the infamous 4-month sleep regression—what it is (a permanent shift in sleep architecture) and how to steer your baby back to restful nights without panic or guilt.


What You’ll Learn• The science of newborn vs. mature sleep cycles—and why four stages suddenly become five • Classic regression red flags (hourly wakings, 38-min naps, dummy drama) • How to tell hunger wakings from “just get me back to sleep” calls—and keep the night-buffet closed • Feed-anchor strategy: hold steady at two night feeds and treat the rest as resettles • Gentle self-settling basics (100 % awake into the cot, no “drowsy but awake” myths) • Day-time tweaks: four-hourly feeds & realistic 45-min naps to fuel better nights


Chapters00:00 Intro – Why the 4-month shift is so hyped00:40 What actually changes in baby sleep cycles01:28 Signs you’re in the regression04:54 Newborn vs. mature sleep architecture08:12 Dummy falls out… now what?11:16 Can early self-settling stop the regression?16:48 Growth spurt or habit waking—spot the difference18:32 Two-feed anchor & “resettle” rule21:13 Creating a gap between props and sleep24:11 Day-work: feeds, naps & schedule sanity25:31 Mindset—consistency over quick fixes


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Hosted by sleep consultants Sally Woods (⁠The Sleep Concierge⁠) and Bec Maher (⁠The Sleep Centre⁠), Nap Trapped helps tired parents solve baby sleep challenges with warmth, evidence, and zero judgement. Every week we turn your questions into practical solutions—with a side of Aldi chocolate.


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Ever found yourself stuck on the couch, scrolling in the quiet, while your little one finally sleeps? You're not alone, and that's exactly where Nap Trapped finds its groove. Hosted by Australian sleep consultants Sally Woods of The Sleep Concierge and Bec Maher from The Sleep Centre, this podcast meets you in that exhausted, sometimes isolating space. It’s a direct conversation between two experts who are also mums, blending solid, evidence-based strategies with the real-world chaos of family life. They break down the 'why' behind restless nights and short naps, moving beyond rigid rules to offer adaptable, practical solutions that actually fit your day. The tone is all solidarity and zero judgment, recognising that every family's sleep journey is different. You'll hear honest stories, debunk common myths, and get actionable advice that aims to bring more rest to your household, not just your baby. Tune into Nap Trapped for a genuinely helpful mix of professional insight and relatable commiseration, all delivered with a warm, Aussie sensibility. It's the kind of podcast you listen to while you're, well, nap trapped, and finish feeling equipped and understood.
Author: Language: en-au Episodes: 87

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Duration: 44:43
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Duration: 32:59
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Sleep Regressions: Real or Not? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 45:04
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Duration: 44:05
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Duration: 53:14
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The Chronic Catnapper: When 20-Minute Naps Won't Budge [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:01:00
Picture this: Your 7-month-old self-settles beautifully at bedtime, sleeps through the night like a champion, but every single nap is 20-30 minutes. You thought sleep training would fix this. It didn't. Welcome to catnap…
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Duration: 46:36
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Feed Play Sleep: Why the Math Doesn't Math (& What Actually Works) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:01:23
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