When Your Nursing Instructor Wants You to Fail

When Your Nursing Instructor Wants You to Fail

Author: Jon Haws RN: Nursing Podcast Host, Critical Care Nurse, Nursing School Men January 8, 2026 Duration: 9:11

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Episode 3: When Your Instructor Wants You to Fail

You're prepared. You know your meds. You practice your skills. You do everything right.

And somehow, you're still getting destroyed in evaluations.

Your instructor tells you you're "not ready for this." That you're "not cut out for nursing." They find fault with everything you do. And you're starting to believe them.

This isn't about having high standards. This is about an instructor who has decided you won't make it—and who is actively working to prove themselves right.

In this episode, I'm giving you the exact strategy for surviving (and fighting back against) an instructor who's targeting you.

You'll Learn:

  • How to tell the difference between a tough instructor and one who's targeting you
  • The 5 twisted reasons instructors target specific students
  • The 8-step survival strategy that protects your grade and your future
  • How to document bias in a way that actually holds up in appeals
  • When to go to the program director vs. when you need a lawyer
  • What to do if you're actually at risk of failing out
  • Why instructor bias has nothing to do with your ability to be a nurse

The reality: Sometimes the instructor has more power. Sometimes the program protects faculty over students. But you can survive this. You can fight back. And you WILL become a nurse.

Resources mentioned: Visit NURSING.com for documentation templates, communication scripts for difficult instructors, grade appeal processes, and a community of students who've been through this and came out the other side.

We tell you the truth about nursing education—including the ugly parts nobody else wants to talk about.

 


Keywords: nursing instructor problems, nursing school failure, clinical instructor bias, grade appeal, nursing student rights, toxic nursing instructor, nursing education bias, student nurse, nursing school survival, academic discrimination


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Hosted by Jon Haws, a critical care nurse who remembers exactly what it was like to be in your shoes, the Nursing Podcast by NURSING.com (NRSNG) is a direct line to the guidance you need. This isn't about dry lectures; it's a conversation from someone who's been through the trenches of nursing school and now thrives at the bedside. Jon brings that real-world perspective to every episode, released several times a week, to keep you motivated and moving forward. You'll hear honest discussions about the common struggles and pressing questions that every nursing student faces, cutting through the overwhelm with practical advice. The episodes delve into actionable tips for academic success and navigating the unique realities of nurse life once you graduate. Occasionally, the format opens up to interviews with other experienced nurses and educators, providing a wider lens on the profession. At its heart, this podcast is a dedicated resource for NCLEX® preparation and overall student success, building confidence for both the exam and the career that follows. It’s a supportive companion for the challenging journey, offering clarity and reassurance when you need it most. Tune in and find the practical insights and genuine encouragement to help you succeed in nursing school and beyond.
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