286: How To Upgrade Your Relationships and Shed Expectations

286: How To Upgrade Your Relationships and Shed Expectations

Author: Satori Prime: Guy and Ilan Ferdman November 28, 2022 Duration: 58:31

In Today's Episode:

  • How To Upgrade Your Relationships Without Putting In More Effort
  • How To Gain More Peace And Happiness By Shedding Expectations
  • What To Do When People In Your Life Are Rude Or Frustrating You
  • How To Get A Major Relationship Breakthrough in 6 Weeks
  • ....And MUCH MORE!


Today's podcast is an open format where Ilan gave our amazing community the opportuntiy to ask any questions they want and as always, people within our community comes up with the most brilliant questions which opened up a space for some incredible insights and breakthroughs.

There is no way reality is other than the way that we precieve reality through our personal mind. And personal mind is made up of every experience you ever had.Ilan Ferdman

A lot of the great questions we recieved were around improving your relationships and we went deep in to how past traumas triggers you, why having expectations is creating so much friction and what to do when people are treating your rude or poorly.

Understanding how to effectively deal with frustration in relationships and people who trigger you can create a lot of friction in our lives and that's why we took the time to dig deep into help you create more flow and ease in your relationship with yourself and others.

In todays episode you will learn insights and techniques around how to take your relationships to the next level without having to try to change the other person or having to talk through your issues. Tune in!


Episode Timestamps:

4.00 Relationships and triggered parts

12.00 Releasing trauma patterns

17.00 Cathy's question about expectations 

23.00 Expectation and unhappiness

30.00 Some hard truths that will change your life

38.00 How to respond when people are rude

44.00 How to get liberation from expectations


People live in their own realities. The weird expectations that someone else would see or understand the world you do is an impossibility.Ilan Ferdman


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Hosted by Guy and Ilan Ferdman of Satori Prime, Old Souls and Seekers is built on the idea that our recurring struggles aren't dead ends, but rather the starting point for genuine development. This podcast moves beyond standard self-help advice, focusing instead on the patterns and emotional loops that keep people feeling stuck. Each conversation, whether between the hosts or with a guest, is designed to share unconventional perspectives and personal stories. The aim is to spark a sense of intrigue and deliver those tangible moments of clarity that resonate on a deeper level. You'll find the discussions are less about quick fixes and more about fostering a lasting shift in understanding, helping to reframe life's inevitable challenges as catalysts for growth. Tuning into this podcast feels like joining a thoughtful dialogue where practical wisdom meets curious exploration, all geared toward accelerating your own personal evolution. The knowledge shared here is for those who feel like perennial learners, eager to connect mind and heart in the pursuit of a more examined and fulfilling life.
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