J.F. Benoist Author of Avive la Vie: An Adventure In Belonging

J.F. Benoist Author of Avive la Vie: An Adventure In Belonging

Author: Timothy J. Hayes, Psy.D. July 21, 2026 Duration: 47:14

Jean-Francois (J.F.) Benoist shares his path to true connection and contentment. He explains how our obsession with being efficient and achieving goals often creates a false sense of belonging, leaving us feeling isolated even when we are constantly doing things for others. J.F. details how the "monkey mind" drives our self-sabotaging habits and why shifting from a logical mindset to heart-centered awareness is necessary for long-term healing. He discusses the importance of creating safety within our nervous systems to improve our relationships, rather than just trying to fix problems or assign blame. You will learn how to pause your narrative, sit with your emotions, and cultivate deeper, more authentic bonds with yourself and your partners.


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