Why We Remember

Why We Remember

Author: Mark Meincke November 9, 2024 Duration: 3:46

If you wish to read this at your school, or your remembrance day ceremony, please go ahead. If you could pop me a note to let me know, that would be appreciated.

Why we remember

To remember not only the fallen, but the sacrifices made by the living who have experienced horrors which are simply beyond the comprehension of the unindoctrinated.

To acknowledge the sacrifice made by the families of the fallen, and of all those who have served and who are still serving.

Because nobody ever truly comes home from War. Only a version of yourself returns.

A haunted version, whose very soul has been irreversibly stained by the realization that Satan is in fact real, and he does indeed cajole decent people into doing awful things.

It’s the understanding of how unspeakably horrible one person can be to another. War forever taints’ you. Witnessing a flagrant disregard for the sanctity of life is not something you can unsee. It is this stain which affects every aspect of your civilian life, often for the rest of your life.

We remember our soldiers because they bear a terrible burden, so that others will never have to carry the painful weight of freedom.

To acknowledge the privilege we enjoy, of living in a peaceful country where our children can safely walk to school without the fear of their school being bombed.

We remember, because we acknowledge that we can’t ever fully appreciate the sacrifices, so we remember in lieu of understanding.

We remember, because it’s the best we can do, and the least we should do to honor our Soldiers, Sailors, and Airmen both past and present.

We remember, because they likely know the unforgettable smell of burning human flesh, and the sound of the screams of the burning.

We remember them, because they can not forget.

We remember, because the survivors often struggle from debilitating depression, relentless nightmares, and uncontrollable anger.

We remember because Veterans are at a much higher risk of suicide.

We remember them, because many of them can never find peace.

We remember them, because we don’t carry the burden of becoming them.

On November the 11th, we will remove our hats, stand for our two minutes of silence, and we will remember them.


Hosted by Mark Meincke, Operation Tango Romeo, the Trauma Recovery Podcast creates a vital space for those who have served in the military, veterans, first responders, and their families. The journey through PTSD and trauma recovery is undeniably difficult, and this series is built on the understanding that it cannot be walked in isolation. Instead of clinical jargon, you’ll hear real, unscripted conversations and personal stories from people who genuinely understand the terrain. There’s a unique power in listening to others who have been there, finding echoes of your own experience in their words, and that shared recognition becomes a form of peer support in itself. This podcast functions as a companion, reinforcing that you are not alone, which in itself is a profound step toward healing. Each episode aims to provide not just insight, but a sense of connection and practical solidarity. Tuning into this podcast means joining a community focused on resilience and recovery, where honest dialogue about the challenges and triumphs of trauma takes center stage. Mark guides these essential conversations, ensuring the content remains grounded and directly relevant to those who need it most.
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