3961: Guilt and Shame: Good and Bad Ways to Feel Bad by Keith Wilson on Understanding Shame

3961: Guilt and Shame: Good and Bad Ways to Feel Bad by Keith Wilson on Understanding Shame

Author: Justin Malik March 29, 2026 Duration: 8:55
Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3961: Keith Wilson draws a sharp, practical distinction between guilt and shame, showing how one leads to growth while the other traps you in avoidance and self-attack. Guilt focuses on actions and invites repair, honesty, and empathy, while shame targets identity and fuels denial, hiding, and conflict. Understanding the difference can help you respond to mistakes in a way that strengthens relationships and personal responsibility. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://keithwilsoncounseling.com/2017/01/06/guilt-and-shame-good-and-bad-ways-to-feel-bad/ Quotes to ponder: "Guilt moves you to repair. Guilt is a truth you tell. Shame is a lie you swallow." "Guilt identifies a problem and gives you a reason to change, so you’ll do better next time. Shame prevents change." "If you’re tempted to hide, to lie, to argue, or to judge, then shame is showing you the way. Get a new guide. Look for someone called guilt." Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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