Setting Boundaries for Your Family

Setting Boundaries for Your Family

Author: Mark Gregston December 8, 2025 Duration: 25:09

Today, join Mark Gregston, Wayne Shepherd and Courtney Lefleur as they discuss setting boundaries for your family. They explain that healthy boundaries start with understanding what each child truly needs and tailoring rules by age, maturity and individual challenges — not just enforcing control for control’s sake. Mark and Courtney emphasize focusing first on relationship, then building clear expectations, household boundaries, and rewards that encourage responsibility and independence. Ultimately, they advise parents to adjust their approach as teens grow, and create a home that offers structure, peace and a place of rest for their weary souls.

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Raising a teenager can feel like navigating uncharted territory every single day. Parenting Today's Teens is here to walk that path with you, offering a steady voice amid the chaos. Mark Gregston brings more than four decades of direct experience working with families to each conversation, translating complex adolescent behaviors into understandable insights. You’ll hear honest discussions about defiance, screen time, emotional withdrawal, and the search for identity, all framed with a perspective that is both pragmatic and hopeful. This isn’t about quick fixes or perfect formulas; it’s about building a lasting, authentic connection with your teen even when it’s difficult. Mark’s approach is grounded in real-world application, offering strategies you can consider and adapt the very same day. The podcast draws from a well of wisdom that respects the spiritual and personal growth of the entire family, recognizing that parenting a teen often means revisiting your own beliefs and reactions. Tune in for a resource that feels like a thoughtful conversation with a trusted guide, one that acknowledges the struggles while consistently pointing toward practical solutions and renewed understanding for the modern parent.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

Parenting Today's Teens
Podcast Episodes
I Mustache Mark a Question: Handling Teen Drama and Risky Choices [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 35:59
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Duration: 27:28
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The Power of Influence: Overcoming Negativity [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 19:34
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Teen Stories: When You Don't Feel Worthy [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 25:20
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Addressing the Fear Factor [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 27:14
Many teens today carry invisible burdens of fear and anxiety — sometimes not even fully understanding where those feelings come from. On this episode, Mark sits down with Abby, a Heartlight resident, who candidly shares…
Shut Your Mouth, Open Your Ears [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 16:15
In this episode, Mark and Wayne discuss one of the most overlooked parenting tools: listening. They explore why teens often tune out when parents talk too much, how today’s digital world has transformed family communicat…
Understanding the ‘Why’ Behind Teen Outbursts [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 18:52
Every parent is bound to face a moment when their teen’s anger seems to explode out of nowhere. But as Mark explains in today’s episode, there’s always more beneath the surface. Whether it’s a struggle for control, a res…
Teen Stories: Finding Yourself Again [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 23:01
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Rescuing or Preparing: Are You Robbing Your Teen? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 15:47
In this episode, Mark and Wayne tackle the hard truth of “rescuing” teens from life’s painful moments and why this well-intentioned instinct can actually do more harm than good. Through real-life examples and candid disc…