Should Smacking be Banned in England & Northern Ireland? Part 2

Should Smacking be Banned in England & Northern Ireland? Part 2

Author: Danusia Malina-Derben May 18, 2024 Duration: 49:00

Parents Who Think (PWT) guests Jo, Roma and Nicole "Get Up On Their High Horse" in our "Should Smacking be Banned in England and Northern Ireland?" debate. Didn't listen to episode one of this debate? Don't worry.

 

If you've a newcomer to PWT debates you can catch up on details in a quick  10-minute episode, telling you how these PWT debates work and meet host, Danusia Malina-Derben. But if you're in a rush, just dive into this episode where Danusia and three parents discuss whether smacking should be banned in England and Northern Ireland, or not.

 

In this episode, we begin with guests sharing their most challenging parenting moments that led to smacking or rough handling. Brace yourself for candid and unfiltered stories as these PWT parents recount the times when they resorted to physical discipline.

 

The heart of this episode is our "Get Up On Your High Horse" segment, where differing opinions clash, and reaching a consensus is not our goal. Here's a glimpse of what you'll hear:

 

Self-Regulation Advocate - One parent emphasises the importance of parents developing self-regulation skills to create a safe environment for their children.

Pro-Education Stance - Another parent argues for mandatory parent education to support those struggling, rather than criminalizing parents who are doing their best under difficult circumstances. She highlights the impact of sleep deprivation in her case against banning smacking.

 

Ban Smacking Proponent -  The final guest advocates for an outright ban on smacking, dismissing arguments for 'reasonable punishment'.

 

Key Discussions:

- The blurred lines in defining physical punishment.

- Whether some parents might be granted accommodations.

- The cultural shift required to move away from smacking as a norm. 

 

Next week, we'll explore the real-world implications of these parents' beliefs. At Parents Who Think, we don't hand out answers; we spark debates and leave it to you to choose your side. Join us for our thought-provoking close-out discussion that challenges traditional views on parenting and physical punishments.

 

PWT Guests featured in this debate are:

Roma Norriss + Jo Bull + Nicole Ratcliffe

 

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70 countries that banned smacking 

Smacking is an act of violence Guardian article 

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Credits:

• Hosted by Danusia Malina-Derben 

• Edited, Mixed + Mastered by Roger Heathers

• Assisted by Marie Kruz

• Cover art by Anthony Oram


Danusia Malina-Derben hosts Parents Who Think, a podcast built on the premise that thoughtful disagreement is more valuable than easy consensus. As an entrepreneur, author, and mother of ten, she facilitates candid conversations that deliberately challenge the comfortable assumptions and unspoken rules of modern parenthood. Each episode features intelligent parents from a wide spectrum of backgrounds, engaging in no-holds-barred debates on crucial dilemmas. The discussions are raw and unfiltered, offering listeners a range of perspectives that often exist outside mainstream parenting narratives. This isn't about finding a single right answer but about illuminating the complex, often hard realities of raising children. Whether your own views are conventional or more marginalized, this podcast provides a rare space for genuine intellectual friction. You'll hear nuanced arguments that prioritize thinking over dogma, inviting you to examine your own choices more deeply. The goal is clarity, not comfort, making it an essential listen for anyone who believes parenting deserves more than a recycled script. Tune in for conversations that interrupt the status quo, acknowledging that agreement is not the point-rigorous, compassionate thought is.
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