158: Burn It All Energy, How to Write a Book, & Bad Dogs

158: Burn It All Energy, How to Write a Book, & Bad Dogs

Author: Cloud10 May 14, 2026 Duration: 14:41
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Paring Down: Realistic minimalism, decluttering, & intentional living is for anyone who feels overwhelmed by their possessions but finds the idea of an empty, stark home equally daunting. Host Shannon Leyko approaches these conversations with the warmth and directness of a close friend, focusing on the mental shifts needed to let go of clutter without adopting an all-or-nothing philosophy. Each episode feels like a supportive chat that acknowledges the emotional weight of our things, whether it's a crowded garage, an overstuffed closet, or a schedule packed with obligations. The discussions move beyond simple organizing tricks to explore a more intentional way of living that can create space-both physically and mentally. Leyko brings in a range of voices, from well-known authors to people navigating everyday challenges, all sharing actionable advice and perspective. This podcast digs into the real reasons we hold on to stuff and how to cultivate a home environment that genuinely serves you. It’s a practical guide for making incremental, sustainable changes that reduce stress, not a rigid doctrine to follow. You’ll find a balanced, compassionate take on creating calm in your living space and your daily routines through realistic steps.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

Paring Down: Realistic minimalism, decluttering, & intentional living
Podcast Episodes
98: Shaping Your Home to Support Your Wants & Needs with Mia Danielle [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 52:47
If your house feels like it's working against you—or you can't seem to keep the clutter from coming back—this episode is for you. After her divorce, today's guest Mia Danielle realized she needed to create a home that su…
97: Harnessing the Scientific Power of Enthusiasm to Declutter [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 42:27
In this episode of the Paring Down podcast, we uncover the surprising science of how enthusiasm can fuel your decluttering journey—and why your excitement matters more than you think. You’ll discover: How mirror neurons…
95: How to Declutter a Storage Unit [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:00:16
In this jam-packed episode of Paring Down, I walk you through how to declutter three common types of storage units—with actionable, step-by-step tips to make the process easier, lighter, and way less overwhelming. We cov…
92: Parenting in a World with X-Rated Content with Kristen A. Jenson [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 59:37
Today's episode is a little different from our typical conversation, leaning heavily into intentional living. After all, when we drown out the noise and clutter, we have time to focus on what truly matters - and what cou…
91: Things that Feel Illegal to Declutter (But Aren't) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 39:37
Sometimes we fail to declutter because of a silent pressure that tells us we're breaking an unwritten rule. Today's episode explores different categories of items that feel illegal to declutter, and how to push past the…
90: How Clutter Affects Our Mental Health with Dr. Brittany Pope [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 56:43
What does a licensed therapist have to say about how clutter affects our mental health? You're about to find out! Today's episode with my dear friend and licensed therapist, Dr. Brittany Pope, will help you not only feel…
89: The Key to Staying Motivated to Declutter [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 44:11
Have you ever found yourself in the middle of a pile while decluttering, having lost all motivation? Or have you ever felt like it's impossible to keep the clutter at bay? There's one key factor to stay motivated on ANY…