17: When Our Partner Doesn't Want to Declutter with Dr. Tracy Dalgleish

17: When Our Partner Doesn't Want to Declutter with Dr. Tracy Dalgleish

Author: Cloud10 February 4, 2024 Duration: 53:22
This episode is a BIG one!! It will be answering the #1 question I get in DMs: What do I do if my partner won't declutter? Not only will it answer this question, it features the one and only Dr. Tracy Dalgleish, world renowned psychologist and couples therapist. Using her 20 years of clinical experience, Tracy walks us through - how to approach our partner about their stuff - asking the right questions - what to do when they get defensive ...and so much more. Today's episode kicks off our 3-week mini series, Paring Down Relationships, so Dr. Tracy also sheds light on the *most* important things to focus on in our relationship for longevity and satisfaction. The goal is to pare down what really matters when it comes to the person we love. Dr. Tracy Instagram: @drtracyd More-Than-Roommates Challenge (kicking off Feb. 1) Dr. Tracy Blog: 5 Characteristics of a Healthy Relationship Dr. Tracy Podcast, I'm Not Your Shrink: The Weekly Meeting Dr. Tracy Website & Online Resources Dr. Tracy's book I Didn't Sign Up for This Paring Down Podcast Instagram: @paringdownpodcast --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/paringdown/support Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Paring Down: Realistic minimalism, decluttering, & intentional living is for anyone who feels overwhelmed by their possessions but finds the idea of an empty, stark home equally daunting. Host Shannon Leyko approaches these conversations with the warmth and directness of a close friend, focusing on the mental shifts needed to let go of clutter without adopting an all-or-nothing philosophy. Each episode feels like a supportive chat that acknowledges the emotional weight of our things, whether it's a crowded garage, an overstuffed closet, or a schedule packed with obligations. The discussions move beyond simple organizing tricks to explore a more intentional way of living that can create space-both physically and mentally. Leyko brings in a range of voices, from well-known authors to people navigating everyday challenges, all sharing actionable advice and perspective. This podcast digs into the real reasons we hold on to stuff and how to cultivate a home environment that genuinely serves you. It’s a practical guide for making incremental, sustainable changes that reduce stress, not a rigid doctrine to follow. You’ll find a balanced, compassionate take on creating calm in your living space and your daily routines through realistic steps.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 144

Paring Down: Realistic minimalism, decluttering, & intentional living
Podcast Episodes
141: Where to Start Decluttering (Or Start Again) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 45:01
If you want to declutter but don't know where to start, this is the episode for you! You’ll learn exactly how to overcome decluttering paralysis and take the first step without feeling overwhelmed. The science-backed rea…
139: Making "Fun" Less Elusive in Adulthood [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 39:25
In this episode, we unpack why "having fun" can feel elusive or even guilt-inducing, and how to create more genuine fun in our daily lives as adults. The big pictures is that fun isn’t optional for creating joy, so we ne…
138: Swedish Death Cleaning with Emily McDermott [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 50:20
How would your loved ones feel if they had to go through your stuff after you're gone? It's tough to think about, but the emotional weight of decluttering is heavy for those we leave behind. No one wants their family gri…
136: Can Humor Be Taught? with Dr. Janet Gibson [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 53:55
In this Good Stuff episode on the topic of joy, I sit down with psychologist Janet M. Gibson to explore the psychology of humor and how it impacts our mental health, relationships, and overall well-being. We break down h…
135: When People Feel Judged by Your Decluttered Life [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 39:04
Have you ever felt like decluttering makes other people in your life defensive? Like you're judging them–even though you're not? In this episode, I’m talking about the relationship tension that can come up when we choose…