Ep 15: BPD Part 3: Suicidal Behavior and Self Injury

Ep 15: BPD Part 3: Suicidal Behavior and Self Injury

Author: Dr. Rebecca Houvener, Psy.D. LCP November 19, 2024 Duration: 39:34
In this episode of the Personality Couch Podcast, we delve into the complexities of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), focusing on the themes of suicidal ideation and self-harm. We explore the DSM criteria for BPD, the motivations behind self-harming behaviors, and the stigma associated with these actions. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding the emotional pain experienced by individuals with BPD and the impact on their relationships. We provide insights into navigating these dynamics, the need for professional help, and the significance of setting boundaries. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) Series01:46 DSM Criteria for Suicidal Ideation and Self-Harm in BPD03:31 Triggers for Self-Harm and Parasuicidal Behaviors07:36 Reasons for Self-Harm and Parasuicidal Behaviors10:11 Defining the Parasuicidal and Self-Harm Spectrum13:59 Additional Reasons for Self-Harm and Parasuicidal Behaviors17:24 Self-Harm and Parasuicidal Behaviors Outside of BPD18:51 Hidden Self-Harm20:36 Stigma and Motives of Behavior29:39 Navigating Relationships and BPD38:29 Conclusion and Key Takeaways CRISIS RESOURCES Text Line: Text HOME to 741-741; a trained crisis counselor receives the text and responds quickly. National Hopeline Network: https://www.thehopeline.com/ National Suicide Prevention Lifeline @ 988 or https://988lifeline.org/ American Foundation for Suicide Prevention @ https://afsp.org/ -https://www.mentalhealthishealth.us/better-together-summit/ Psychoeducation https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/borderline-personality-disorder/index.shtml https://www.nami.org/learn-more/mental-health-conditions/borderline-personality-disorder https://www.borderlinepersonalitydisorder.org/

On the Personality Couch podcast, the subtle and often confusing tensions that shape our daily lives are brought into focus. Hosted by clinical psychologists Dr. Rebecca Houvener (“Doc Bok”) and Dr. Cheyenne Fisher (“Doc Fish”), this conversation moves beyond abstract theory to examine the real-world friction we navigate. Every other week, they take apart those puzzling interactions-the off-kilter feeling with a relative, the unexpected clash with a colleague-and trace them back to their roots in personality structure. Their dialogue is a practical exploration, offering listeners a framework to understand not just others, but their own reactions and patterns. You’ll hear detailed breakdowns of complex relational dynamics, all discussed with the clarity and nuance that comes from clinical expertise. The aim is to provide actionable insight, transforming confusion into comprehension. This isn’t about labeling people; it’s about deciphering the hidden language of human behavior that operates in our friendships, families, workplaces, and broader culture. By tuning in, you gain a shared vocabulary for the unspoken, making sense of the conflicts we all face but don’t always know how to address. The podcast serves as a guide for anyone looking to improve their connections and their own self-awareness, one conversation at a time.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 50

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Ep 23: The 4 Narcissistic Subtypes You Need to Know [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 44:31
In this episode of the Personality Couch Podcast, we (licensed clinical psychologists Doc Bok and Doc Fish) explore the complex world of narcissism, focusing on its various subtypes. We unpack grandiose narcissism, its c…
Ep 22: Vulnerable and Grandiose Narcissism | The Mirror Has Two Faces [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 35:25
In this episode of the Personality Couch Podcast, we (licensed clinical psychologists Doc Bok and Doc Fish) delve into the complexities of pathological narcissism, exploring its various expressions, including covert, ove…
Ep 21:  Narcissistic Personality Disorder | The 9 Symptoms [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 34:35
In this episode of the Personality Couch Podcast, we (licensed clinical psychologists Doc Bok and Doc Fish) delve into the complexities of narcissism and narcissistic personality disorder (NPD). We explore the historical…
Ep 20: Narcissism Gone Bad | 5 Signs Its Pathological [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 34:33
In this episode of the Personality Couch Podcast, we (licensed clinical psychologists Doc Bok and Doc Fish) unpack the 5 major signs of pathological narcissism, as well as 3 bonus invisible signs of narcissism. We explor…
Ep 19: Is Narcissism Good? The Surprising Truth About Self-Importance [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 29:30
In this episode of the Personality Couch Podcast, we (licensed clinical psychologists Doc Bok and Doc Fish) delve into the complexities of narcissism, exploring its cultural labeling, the distinction between pathological…
Ep 18: The 6 Mental Health Trends: 2024 in Review [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 33:34
In this episode of the Personality Couch Podcast, we (licensed clinical psychologists Doc Bok and Doc Fish) explore the cultural and clinical trends of 2024, focusing on global unrest, political polarization, re-examinin…
Ep 17: BPD Part 5: Quiet Borderline: A Closer Look at Subtypes [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 37:04
In this episode of the Personality Couch Podcast, we continue to explore the complexities of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), particularly focusing on the lesser-known subtype: Quiet BPD. We delve into the historic…
Ep 16: BPD Part 4: What BPD Therapy Really Looks Like [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 39:45
In this episode of the Personality Couch Podcast, we dive into the complexities of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) treatment, in particular, the healing power of the invisible dynamics in therapy. We discuss the im…
Ep 14: BPD Part 2: Fear of Abandonment, Psychosis, and Dissociation [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 31:43
In our second episode of the Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) series, we discuss how this condition manifests in relationships and clinical practice. We explore the pervasive patterns of instability, fear of abandon…