What Does “No Self” Really Mean?

What Does “No Self” Really Mean?

Author: Pragmatic Buddhism March 27, 2026 Duration: 37:34

The Buddhist teaching of “no self” can sound confusing or even alarming. Does it mean we don’t exist? That our personality is an illusion? In this talk, Douglas and the St Louis sangha unpack what “no self” actually points to and why it’s considered one of the most liberating insights in Buddhist practice. Rather than denying our experience, this discussion invites us to look closely at how identity forms, solidifies, and creates suffering. By understanding the self as a dynamic process rather than a fixed entity, we open the door to greater flexibility, compassion, and freedom.


Pragmatic Buddhism offers a space for down-to-earth Dharma talks, mindful reflections, and unscripted conversations. It’s for anyone curious about how ancient insight meets the complexities of modern living. Rather than presenting teachings in isolation, this podcast weaves Buddhist principles together with perspectives from psychology, neuroscience, and ordinary lived experience. You’ll hear discussions that feel like a genuine exploration, not a lecture, focusing on how these ideas actually function in daily life. The tone is accessible, whether you’re just beginning to explore meditation or have been practicing for years. Each episode is an invitation to cultivate a more authentic awareness and a deeper sense of compassionate acceptance, without pretense or dogma. The aim is to make the path practical, examining how we navigate relationships, work, and internal challenges with a clearer, more grounded perspective. This isn’t about abstract philosophy; it’s about the tangible application of wisdom. Tune in for a thoughtful, meandering conversation that values curiosity over certainty, and finds the profound within the everyday. The Pragmatic Buddhism podcast serves as a companion for integrating these reflections into your own journey, one honest conversation at a time.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 35

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