Interview with Nell Fields | Ep #15

Interview with Nell Fields | Ep #15

Author: Rick Koonce May 7, 2021 Duration: 31:13

Nell Fields is a born-again Christian, social justice advocate, and a happily married lesbian who's been with her wife Sarah, a lawyer, for over 20 years. She's also the minister of Waquoit Congregational church in East Falmouth, MA.

The youngest of five daughters whose father was a career Army officer, Nell initially pursued a career in business and journalism. But, at a pivotal point in her early professional life, when living in the closet was exacting a heavy personal toll, Nell says she felt God's call to enter the ministry.

As she tells PFLAG Cape Cod's Rick Koonce in this compelling interview, her coming out story wasn't easy. In fact, she and a partner were once told by a minister at their church in California not to share with other members of the congregation that they were lesbian.

For Nell, it was a moment of shock, hurt, and deep disappointment. Yet, in retrospect, that moment of exclusion -- of being the other, the outsider -- proved a key turning point in Nell's pastoral career. In fact, it has shaped her progressive pastoral vision and inclusive ministry to people of all kinds ever since.

"God gives all of us the gift to be who we are -- be it straight or LGBTQ+," says Nell.

She goes on to say, "God loves diversity. There's so much diversity and variety in nature, why wouldn't there be diversity in humanity as well?"

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