It's been said that you spend the first forty years of your life looking forward, and the last forty looking back—from death toward your life. But what if you never get the chance to look forward? Imagine being young and told you may only have a year to live. All around you, you see people living the life you've been cheated out of. How would that feel? How could you find hope in that?
These are the feelings and questions that children with cancer—and those who love and support them—face every day.
Jed Doherty sat down with two powerful experts to discuss exactly that on a new episode of his long-running podcast, Reading With Your Kids. One was a doctor. The other was an equally powerful expert: a child in remission from brain cancer.
Dr. Katerina Levi is a pediatric mental health clinician who recently completed a residency at Broward Hospital in Fort Lauderdale, Florida. While there, she helped treat children battling cancer and often spoke with them in a garden on the hospital grounds. This experience, along with her dissertation research on bibliotherapy—therapy conducted through books—prompted her to write The Healing Garden.
The book follows Alex, a boy diagnosed with cancer. Over the course of the story, Alex meets a new friend: a talking bear. The bear provides actionable, evidence-based psychological advice in language children can understand. At the back of the book is a guide for parents and caregivers to help support children through this trying time.
But why books? Why not just therapy sessions, or one person talking to another, or direct instruction? Katrina offers an answer: "Children's storybooks provide a non-confrontational way to discuss difficult topics." She adds that "children can often identify with characters in books," giving young readers a safe pathway to explore emotions such as frustration, anger, fear, and sadness—feelings that children with cancer experience far too often.
The other guest on this episode is no stranger to the power of art.
Cassidy Stocker, daughter of previous Reading With Your Kids guest and author Shannon Stocker, is a child in remission from brain cancer. Her cancer is currently gone, though recurrence is always a frightening possibility. Cassidy is a painter who sells her landscapes, and the proceeds go toward buying gifts for other children with cancer undergoing chemotherapy.
When Jed asks how and why she came up with this idea, Cassidy says she "felt less alone, more happy."
Though Cassidy was only in eighth grade at the time of the interview, she speaks with clarity and wisdom far beyond her years. She shares how undergoing chemotherapy felt "completely unfair," and how it "feels like you're alone in your sickness," even as nurses, doctors, and family members—who are healthy—care for you.
Yet Cassidy has not allowed her experience to harden her heart. Instead, she encourages other children to be grateful for the life they have and reminds them that "sadness and anger are not a way to live." She understands that death can come suddenly, and she chooses to live with purpose, gratitude, and generosity.
Cassidy has formalized her gift-giving into the nonprofit charity Gifts For Gold. You can learn more and lend your support at giftsforgold.org.
The episode is a moving reminder that stories can heal, and that children—when given space to speak—often become our greatest teachers.
These stories remind us that children, though younger, are as capable as adults of enormous feats of kindness, learning, and mental endurance. Treat a child with respect, and you'll find them growing like a sprout—at once slowly and too quickly to be believed—into something remarkable.
Written by Jackson Sotallaro
