#46 Got Rejected. Wasn't So Bad.

#46 Got Rejected. Wasn't So Bad.

Author: Alexander Grace March 17, 2023 Duration: 14:18

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[FR] Finally asked out the hb7 who works in the shop next to mine

Hb7 works in the shop next to my own place of employment, I know that she works 4 days a week based on when her car is in the car park but Ive only seen this girl a handful of times. Never had a chance to talk to her in 6 months since ive been here but i know she's reasonably hot, and takes her lunch break at the same time as me.

This morning when I was in the car park she happened to walk out from her car and I said hey as we made eye contact, she said hows it going and I said pretty good. Then she went inside. Zzzzz…

I went into my shop, turned on the radio, and instantly got reminded that today is Valentines day. S^&t! I missed a perfect chance to ask her to get lunch with me, and now I probably wont see her again today. Damn.. For a couple of hours I was debating in my mind whether I should just walk over and ask her, because hey its Valentines day what a great excuse, but I knew I would p#$%y out and not do it, because it might seem weird.

But then a miracle happened. My boss told me that the girl next door needed to borrow one of our pallets, and that I should pick out a s%^&*y one we dont need and give it to her. Here's my chance!

I moved a pallet out back and walked over to their rear entrance. Called out "Hello?" And she appeared. As she walked over I upgraded her to an hb8 because her face and eyes were nicer than I thought. I said hey and introduced myself and showed her where she could get the pallet from.

That's when I had to do it. I havent gone out and practiced heaps of approaches like some guys so I still had a few butterflies. The conversation went like this:

"The radio reminded me that its V day today, and it's nearly 1 oclock, do you wanna get lunch?"

"Ohh nah I brought mine to work"

"So did I, we could still go somewhere for fresh air"

"Im kind of already on my lunch break"

"Alright no worries, have a good day"

"Yeah"

There was no point insisting because I didnt wanna be desperate. Its a little disappointing that her automatic reaction was to say no, and not even enquire a little bit. It seems like a bad habit and I feel like she could work harder on that.

I went back into my shop feeling pretty pumped that at least I took my shot. Then I heard some woman let out a big cackle of laughter through the wall. I know exactly what that was about.. what a bitch! :P Im sure anyway that the girl will be wondering all day about what could have happened if she said yes, so it's her loss really.

Now im glad I dont have to wonder any more and I look forward to being cheeky in the future if we cross paths again I can just be like "Oi! Lunch?" While winking and pointing finger guns at her. She knows what I want and idgaf any more because the rejection has already happened.

TLDR: Got rejected, wasn't so bad. More enthusiasm gained towards asking girls out in the future.


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