Social Interaction: The Digital Erasure of Presence?

Social Interaction: The Digital Erasure of Presence?

Author: Gareth King November 29, 2025 Duration: 51:25

With its constant presence and insatiable demand for attention, has the internet invaded our offline spaces, diminishing our ability to be truly present, and eroding the quality of our in-person experiences?

To help us understand the costs of digital distraction, we’re joined by Emily Toner, a clinical psychologist and international expert in the fields of mindfulness, eco-psychology and mental health.

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In this episode, Emily joins us to explore the profound effects of the Internet on social interaction and relationships, the importance of social connection for mental and physical health, and the changing definitions of social interaction in the digital age.

We also look at the concept of ‘phubbing’, the state of 'doingness' versus 'beingness', the intersection of mental health, technology, and community connections, and the rising anxiety and depression in a tech-driven world.

00:00 The Impact of the Internet on Social Interaction

05:06 The Importance of Social Connection

09:55 Changing Definitions of Social Interaction

14:51 The Distraction of Technology in Social Settings

20:03 Phubbing: The New Social Norm

24:48 The State of Doingness vs. Beingness

28:09 The Importance of Community Connections

35:37 The Impact of Digital Interactions on Relationships

39:22 AI and the Future of Connection

46:25 Practical Strategies for Healthy Social Interactions


It’s a question that nags at anyone who’s ever felt a pang of nostalgia or a wave of digital fatigue: are we better or worse off because of our constant connection? Hosted by Gareth King, Ruined By The Internet? digs into that uneasy feeling, moving beyond simple headlines to explore how our online world actively moulds society, culture, and the texture of daily life. This isn’t about reviewing apps or gadgets; it’s about treating the digital realm as the pervasive environment it has become. Each episode features thoughtful conversations with leading thinkers and researchers from around the world, dissecting the real evidence behind our shared anxieties and hopes. You’ll hear nuanced discussions that ask whether the casualties we often blame on technology are inevitable, or if we’re simply misdiagnosing deeper societal shifts. This podcast provides a space for considered reflection, offering listeners a clearer lens through which to view their own place in a world that is, for better or worse, thoroughly wired.
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