The 4 Stages of Money (And Why Most People Get Stuck in Stage 2)

The 4 Stages of Money (And Why Most People Get Stuck in Stage 2)

Author: Bob Lotich, Linda Lotich May 15, 2026 Duration: 20:41

37% of people making $250,000 a year are living paycheck to paycheck right now. Which means the thing keeping most of us stuck financially has almost nothing to do with how much we make. Linda and I have coached people pulling in $250k who are dead broke. We've watched a $20,000 raise get absorbed by lifestyle inside six months and leave them exactly where they started. The problem isn't income. The problem is that most of us are working hard on the wrong math problem.

In this episode we walk through the four stages of money (surviving, stable, secure, and surplus) and the one mistake almost everybody makes when they try to jump from one stage to the next. We get into why "boring" is the actual investing strategy, why we wish we wouldn't have taken the raise, the bank-manager story that explains why the system is rigged against people in stage one, and the moment we finally figured out that the move that got us from stage one to stage two was the exact same move keeping us stuck in stage two for years.

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WHAT WE COVER IN THIS EPISODE

Here's a little of what we cover in this episode:

  • The stat that proves your financial stage has almost nothing to do with your income
  • The 4 stages of money and how to know which one you're actually in
  • The one mistake almost everybody makes trying to jump from one stage to the next
  • Why a $20k raise can leave you with the same $0 left at the end of the month
  • The bank manager story that exposes how the system is rigged against people in stage one
  • Why "boring" is actually the right investing strategy at stage three
  • The Elon-Musk-doesn't-mow-his-own-lawn principle most people get backwards
  • Why willpower-based budgeting always fails (and what to do instead)

 

BIBLE VERSES MENTIONED

  • Matthew 14:13-21 (referenced. The five loaves and two fish. "You bring it to me and I'll multiply it.")

 

RESOURCES MENTIONED

 

DISCLAIMER

Obligatory legal disclaimer: I'm a financial educator, not your financial advisor, investment advisor, tax pro, or lawyer. This channel is for general education, not personalized advice, and nothing here should be taken as a recommendation to buy, sell, or use any specific investment, account, or financial product. I'm just sharing what I'm doing, what I'm learning, and what I find interesting.

Markets can be humbling. Investing involves risk, including the risk of losing money, and my results are personal, may not be typical, and are not guaranteed. Do your own research, use wisdom, and talk with a qualified professional before making financial decisions.

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What does it look like to manage money well when your faith is the foundation of your life? That’s the central question explored in SeedTime with Bob and Linda Lotich. This isn't just another financial advice show; it's a conversation about integrating biblical principles with the practical realities of budgeting, investing, and building a secure future. Bob and Linda approach finances from a unique perspective, one that challenges conventional wisdom by framing stewardship as a spiritual practice. Their discussions move beyond spreadsheets to consider how financial health directly impacts your marriage, your sense of purpose, and your ability to live generously. Each episode aims to provide actionable steps to simplify your finances, eliminate debt, and cultivate a sense of peace and control over the resources you've been given. The goal is to shift your focus from anxiety about money towards freedom, allowing you to invest your time and energy into what truly matters. If you've ever felt that typical money advice misses the heart of the matter, this podcast offers a different path-one where faith and finances are seamlessly connected. Tune in for honest conversations that blend personal experience with practical strategy, all centered on building a life of purpose and provision.
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