#90-GIRL TALK: Sex advice for our 20 year old selves

I host an uncensored girl talk with Tanya, Peekaboo, Curly Vixen, Amelia, and R about what we’d whisper to our 20-year-old selves after years of sexual experience and discovering the lifestyle. We talk about learning what good sex actually is, asking for what you want instead of taking what you can get, and communicating both desires and boundaries. We share different backgrounds—early vs. late sexual starts, religious upbringing, marriage and kids young—and how shame, jealousy, and possessiveness affected relationships and friendships. We discuss confidence and body acceptance, phases in desire, kink and power dynamics, porn/internet exposure, and pressure around things like squirting and consent. I also mention my upcoming Hedonism trip, our Girl Talk Spotify playlist, and we end with Amelia plugging that she’s single. 00:00 Uncensored Girl Talk Intro 00:12 Breaking the Censorship Ice 00:53 Advice to Our 20s Setup 02:10 R on Learning Desire 04:27 Lifestyle Lessons and Jealousy 06:13 Amelia on Exploring More 08:49 Peekaboo on Sex vs Red Flags 11:04 Tanya Letter to 20-Year-Old Self 14:03 Curly Vixen Confidence and Settling 18:29 Host Body Image and Pleasure 20:39 Discovering Kink Layers 22:14 Owning Your Needs 22:39 Teaching Better Lovers 26:36 Squirting Pressure Consent 28:41 Sex Friendship Possessiveness 30:10 From Religious Upbringing 34:13 Finding Lifestyle Clubs 35:54 First Sex Club Reality 37:25 Aging Wild Sex Lives 38:35 Body Confidence Hedo Trip 40:38 Wrap Up Plugs Teasing *description written with the help of AI* Check out my friends fan pages: ⁠https://linktr.ee/TUFriends Content mentioned in this episode: 1. Full details on my upcoming trip to Hedonism: https://youtu.be/Ur17F07o8-s?si=8Zylao0zspfnVQPL 2. Spotify playlist of all my girl talk episodes: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/1zlr22uIm8OPG9MDdqIWWP?si=025680bf09774f38 ***** Get your free Swinger Lifestyle Starter Kit - learn what to expect, common mistakes to avoid, and how to walk into a sex-positive space without feeling out of place: 👉⁠⁠⁠https://torontounicorn.kit.com/starterkitpodcast⁠⁠⁠ Ready to go deeper? Check out my full sex club and swinger lifestyle courses at ⁠⁠⁠LevelUpWithTorontoUnicorn.com⁠⁠⁠ ***** ALL social media links (YouTube, podcasts, fan page, etc): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/TorontoUnicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ DIRECT link to my explicit TorontoUnicorn fan page: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://OnlyFans.com/TorontoUnicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ***** Sign up for my email newsletters to stay up-to-date on TorontoUnicorn news, events and swinger lifestyle resources: ⁠⁠⁠https://torontounicorn.kit.com/newsletter⁠⁠⁠ ***** 🎙️Did you know I have multiple uncensored podcasts? Links: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/TorontoUnicornPodcasts⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ -- Want to own something I wear, use, recommend or chuckle at? Check out my Amazon storefront! *affiliate links provide me with a small commission* 🇺🇸 Amazon storefront: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/torontounicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 🇨🇦 Amazon storefront: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.amazon.ca/shop/torontounicorn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ***** Please rate this podcast 5 stars and leave a comment to help others discover it too :) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices