SWM 142 – AQ – September 2024 – Exhibitionism, no sex in 4 months, rough sex and more

AQ - September 2024 - Exhibitionism, no sex in 4 months, rough sex and more. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.

We’re catching up today on our anonymous questions with those submitted in September of this year. As always, these questions come from our anonymous Have A Question page with no contact information and only the context provided in the question. From that, we kick it around the supporter’s forum for anyone to weigh in on, and then I post my answers in the form of a podcast episode and blog post.

Let’s jump right in with question number 1.

Me and my partner would never "swing" as we believe it is immoral. With that said, we've had multiple conversations about wanting to be heard/seen having sex or even having sex while another couple is having sex nearby. We've never done it as we are already satisfied sexually, but given that it's come up repeatedly, I've begun wondering about the morality of it. What are your thoughts?

One of our supporters, I think rightfully, quoted Matthew 5:

“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” - Matthew 5:27-28

Now, whether you’re on the side that wants to look or the side that wants to be looked at, I don’t think it makes a difference. Either way, I would consider this a form of adultery.