EP423 - Dating Dilemmas: Anxiety, Ghosting, and Finding Connection

EP423 - Dating Dilemmas: Anxiety, Ghosting, and Finding Connection

Author: Dr. Nazanin Moali, Ph.D, Psychology of Sex | Couple Therapy | Sex Education January 28, 2025 Duration: 50:02

Welcome to Episode 423 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome back Dr. Richard Espinoza, he joins me to speak to about he complexities of modern dating, from ghosting to online matchmaking, and everything in between.


In this episode, we discuss why ghosting has become so prevalent, how attachment styles shape our approach to vulnerability, and why online dating can often feel like a rollercoaster. We also reflect on the importance of self-awareness when navigating relationships, and share tips on determining your readiness for dating. 


Richard “Dr. E” Espinoza, PsyD, is a leading clinical psychologist based in Los Angeles, specializing in trauma and resilience. His practice emphasizes serving the LGBTQ+ community and its allies, striving to empower individuals from diverse backgrounds through comprehensive psychological assessments, transformative talk therapy, and dedicated activism. As an esteemed professor and captivating speaker, Dr. Espinoza shares practical insights on self-discovery and personal growth. He also creates accessible self-help resources, designed to inspire personal transformation and a deeper sense of fulfillment.


In this episode, you will hear:


  • The Prevalence Of Ghosting And Its Psychological Impact
  • How Attachment Styles Affect Vulnerability In Dating
  • Why Many People Struggle To Build Lasting Connections Online
  • Tips For Assessing Your Readiness For A Relationship
  • The Importance Of Open Conversations About Sex Early In Dating
  • Addressing Misconceptions About Open Relationships
  • Why Matchmaking Services Can Be Helpful But Have Mixed Results
  • The Value Of In-Person Events For Building Genuine Connections
  • How Cultural And Personal Values Shape Relationship Expectations
  • Insights Into Our Upcoming Matchmaking Event, The LA Love Lab


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