EP435 - Successful Threesomes: How to Have and Get One

EP435 - Successful Threesomes: How to Have and Get One

Author: Dr. Nazanin Moali, Ph.D, Psychology of Sex | Couple Therapy | Sex Education April 22, 2025 Duration: 31:55

Welcome to Episode 435 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Tia Lynn, a seasoned intimacy coach and host of the Sexy Biz Babe Podcast, who speaks to me about navigating threesomes, one of the most common fantasies among couples - and how to approach them with intention, clarity, and care.


In our conversation, we explore the difference between fantasy and desire, and why not every fantasy needs to be acted upon. Tia offers practical advice on how couples can decide whether a threesome is right for them, including how to assess trust, emotional safety, and shared curiosity. We also talk about the importance of open dialogue, emotional preparation, and creating safe, judgment-free zones to explore these conversations.


Tia Lynn is a TEDX speaker, host of the Sexy Biz Babe podcast and a Sex & Intimacy coach. She loves to help high-achieving women tap into their feminine energy, reignite their sexy confidence to have the best sex of their life. Her methods are known to increase self-confidence, income, and better sex!


In this episode, you will hear:


·      Understanding the Fantasy vs. Reality of Threesomes

·      How to Know If You and Your Partner Are Ready

·      Importance of Trust, Communication, and Consent

·      Common Emotional Pitfalls to Avoid

·      Tips for Bringing Up the Topic with Your Partner

·      Where and How to Meet a Potential Third

·      Screening for Safety and Emotional Compatibility

·      Setting Boundaries and Managing Jealousy

·      Initiating Intimacy Without Awkwardness

·      Why Aftercare Is Just as Important as the Act Itself

 

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Curiosity about human sexuality is universal, yet finding grounded, evidence-based conversations can be surprisingly difficult. That’s where Sexology comes in. Hosted by clinical psychologist and sex therapist Dr. Nazanin Moali, this weekly series moves beyond sensationalism and stigma to bring you thoughtful dialogues with leading experts, researchers, and therapists. Each episode delves into the nuanced psychology of sex, intimacy, and relationships, translating complex findings into relatable insights. You’ll hear conversations that address the questions many ponder but hesitate to voice, covering everything from desire and communication to the science of pleasure and emotional connection. Dr. Moali’s background in both couple therapy and sex education ensures these discussions are both academically rigorous and deeply practical. Rather than offering quick fixes, this podcast provides a compassionate space to understand the multifaceted nature of our sexual selves. Tuning in feels like gaining access to a candid, confidential forum where nothing is off-limits and everything is examined with respect and intellectual curiosity. For anyone seeking to deepen their understanding of personal or relational dynamics, Sexology offers a trusted, enlightening resource that demystifies the complexities of human sexuality through a scientific and therapeutic lens.
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