EP445 - How to Have Mindful Masturbation

EP445 - How to Have Mindful Masturbation

Author: Dr. Nazanin Moali, Ph.D, Psychology of Sex | Couple Therapy | Sex Education July 1, 2025 Duration: 38:27

Welcome to Episode 445 of the Sexology Podcast! Today, I'm excited to be joined by Darshana Avila, who speaks to me about mindful masturbation as a form of self-care and erotic exploration.

 

In this conversation, Darshana and I dive into why so many of us default to the same quick, goal-oriented masturbation routine and how that habit is wired into our neural pathways. We explore the power of slowing down, setting an intention, and treating solo pleasure as a ritual, complete with an opening, body-centered exploration, and a conscious closing.


Best known for her contributions to Netflix's Sex, Love & goop, trauma informed,pleasure centric, culturally relevant erotic education is Darshana's sweet spot. Supporting women & queer community, individually or alongside their partners, is her deepest passion She's a certified Somatic Experiencing Practitioner & Sexological Bodyworker, guiding & serving through her private practice, public speaking & online offerings.


In this episode, you will hear:


·      Defining Mindful Masturbation

·      Neural Pathways And Habit Loops

·      Intentional Rituals For Solo Sex

·      Full-Body Touch Before Genitals

·      Navigating Boredom And Plateaus

·      Sensate Focus Vs. Visual Stimulation

·      Fantasy As A Creative Arousal Tool

·      Scheduling Familiar And New Practices

·      Challenging Inner Critic Narratives

·      Pleasure As Personal And Collective Liberation

 

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