87. Caroline Markel: She's Back This Month; "Big, Bold, and Unapologetic!"

87. Caroline Markel: She's Back This Month; "Big, Bold, and Unapologetic!"

Author: Dave Markel May 28, 2024 Duration: 36:02
Because Caroline was traveling so much of last month, I wasn't able to record an April episode with her. But now, she's back home and busy at work. But not so busy as to miss another episode with me! This month, Caroline talks about where she was these past several weeks, who she was traveling with, what they were doing on this extended trip, and the many insights and lessons she learned along the way. That discussion, in and of itself, was intriguing…but wait 'til you hear what else she's been working on, in terms of her healing journey! Caroline is transparent and honest in how important it is to her to come to grips with what it truly means to take care of yourself, even at the expense of putting off past friends who aren't ready, or capable, of leaning into holding on to Caroline's hand as she progresses in her personal and her professional work--taking measures moving forward that are "big, bold, and unapologetic!" There are also some exciting changes coming to Safe In Harm's Way, including the possibility of some collaborative work with another of our SASS family members, Coach Bailie! Nothing is in stone yet, but what Caroline talks about in this episode about what may be coming is exciting and powerful! And stay tuned so you don't miss a soon to be recorded episode with Bailie! There are some additional golden nuggets of insight and information in this episode, but you'll need to listen in to hear the power behind the words! And be sure to share this episode as well as the podcast itself! There are lots of reasons for you to do these things, not the least of which is to help this podcast grow. Which is another way to help bring justice to victims and survivors of rape and sexual assault. And yet another avenue to this end is to Start By Believing…because we all know someone whose life has been impacted by rape or sexual assault! And something else I'd like for you to give some attention to and check out are these sites: https://www.safeinharmsway.org https://linktr.ee/coachbailie https://www.gofundme.com/f/cassie-lost-all-shelter-belongings-in-car-fire https://www.startbybelieving.org https://evawintl.org https://projectcallisto.org https://www.safeinharmsway.org https://www.markel-consulting.com davemarkel@gmail.com

Hosted by Dave Markel, Sexual Assault Survivor Stories creates a necessary and nuanced space centered on personal narratives and expert understanding. Each week, this podcast shares firsthand accounts from individuals who have experienced sexual assault, offering a raw and respectful look at the journey from victim to survivor. These stories aren't just about the trauma itself; they delve into the complex path of healing, highlighting both the profound adversities faced and the hard-won victories, large and small. Listening provides a window into the emotional and psychological dynamics that define survival, moving beyond simplistic narratives to honor the full, often messy, human experience. Crucially, this isn't a resource only for those directly affected. The podcast deliberately expands the conversation to educate a broader audience. Episodes explore the principles of trauma-informed communication and break down the neuroscience of trauma and memory, explaining how these factors impact a survivor's recall and testimony. This approach fosters deeper empathy and insight, whether you're a supporter, a professional, or anyone seeking to comprehend these issues on a more informed level. By weaving together personal truth and psychological context, this podcast serves as both a sanctuary for shared experience and a vital tool for collective learning.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

Sexual Assault Survivor Stories
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176. Pamela France: Faith, Trauma, and the Truth That Follows [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:24:25
In this episode of Sexual Assault Survivor Stories, I sit down with Pamela France, author of the memoir Life Soup. Pamela shares her lived experience of childhood sexual abuse and the lifelong impact of trauma, alongside…
175. Amy Watson & HASSL: What You Allow Is What Continues [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 50:07
There are some episodes of this show that don't revolve around a single survivor story, but they still land just as hard—because they force us to look at ourselves. This is one of those conversations. It's not about reco…
174. Gemini: First the Assault. Then Saprea. [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 58:34
There's a distinctive aspect to this show that makes it different from most podcasts in this genre, and I consider it a privilege and honor to recognize those of you who make it that way. Sexual Assault Survivor Stories…
173. Beth: When "Normal" was Actually Rape and Sexual Assault [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:33:34
Beth is a survivor who reached out to me after realizing that memories she once believed were long buried were anything but inconsequential. As she explains, those memories began resurfacing as she engaged in EMDR—Eye Mo…
172. Erica: When a Husband's Power Became Sexual Violence [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:01:32
In this episode I sit down with Erica, a survivor whose experience exposes the devastating reality of coercive control, rape, and sexual assault within a marriage. Erica reached out to share not only what she endured, bu…
171. Dave Markel:  When Showing Up Means Slowing Down [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 7:55
Today, this episode is a brief reflection from me, recorded as a pause in the regular rhythm of the show. Rather than a guest interview, I'm speaking directly to you, my listeners, about the weight of trauma-informed wor…