89. Erika Shershun: From Tragedy to Triumph – A Journey of Healing from Unimaginable Trauma

89. Erika Shershun: From Tragedy to Triumph – A Journey of Healing from Unimaginable Trauma

Author: Dave Markel June 21, 2024 Duration: 51:53
Erika's life story sounds like a fictional crime novel…but the amazing aspect is that the truth really is sometimes stranger than fiction. The truth of Erika's horrific story is that her father killed himself when Erika was just 15. Years later, a brother also ended his own life. At 19 Erika was raped by a friend of the young man she was dating; and he set her up for the rape! But there were additional rapes after that one. Subsequently, Erika also tried to end her own life but, like she said in her interview, "it wasn't meant to be." Years later she had an overpowering and disturbing memory surface, she was sexually assaulted when she was an infant. After two decades spent in therapy, none of which addressed the root of the problem, sexual trauma, she realized she would have to piece together what was needed to heal on her own. She did this while going through the process of becoming a licensed marriage and family therapist who specializes in helping survivors heal from the devastation of sexual assault and rape. Erika's bio is impressive: "Erika Shershun, MA, LMFT, is a somatic psychotherapist who specializes in helping sexual trauma survivors reclaim the life they were meant to live. She's the author of the Healing Sexual Trauma Workbook, the Healing Sexual Trauma Guided Journal (March 2025 release), the facilitator of the PESI Sexual Trauma Clinical Training, and the upcoming Sexual Trauma Healing Journey (September 2024). Her approach is trauma informed, rooted in somatic principles, drawing on neuroscience and integrative modalities like EMDR, energy psychology, parts work, and mindfulness. Erika offers individual online therapy sessions in California and provides coaching to clients outside of the state. You can contact her or subscribe to her mailing list to receive your free copy of Healing Sexual Trauma, chapter 1 from the Healing Sexual Trauma Workbook at . I hope you listen to this episode. Erika's story is powerful, transparent, and inspiring. After you've heard the episode, please share it…its' a story that needs to be spread. That small act of sharing this episode will be your latest effort to help bring justice to others whose lives have been impacted by rape or sexual assault. And, remember to Start By Believing when it comes to listening to or supporting a victim or survivor of rape or sexual assault; because we all know someone whose life has been impacted by rape or sexual assault. Here are some links and email addresses I would appreciate you taking a look at, and consider leaving a message! Thank you for your support of Sexual Assault Survivor Stories, the SASS podcast! @erikashershun davemarkel@gmail.com I hope you listen to this episode. Erika's story is powerful, transparent, and inspiring. After you've heard the episode, please share it…its' a story that needs to be spread. That small act of sharing this episode will be your latest effort to help bring justice to others whose lives have been impacted by rape or sexual assault. And, remember to Start By Believing when it comes to listening to or supporting a victim or survivor of rape or sexual assault; because we all know someone whose life has been impacted by rape or sexual assault. Here are some links and email addresses I would appreciate you taking a look at, and consider leaving a message! Thank you for your support of Sexual Assault Survivor Stories, the SASS podcast! https://ErikaShershunTherapy.com @erikashershun https://markel-consulting.com https://startbybelieving.org https://evawintl.org https://safeinharmsway.org https://thejanbrobergfoundation.org davemarkel@gmail.com

Hosted by Dave Markel, Sexual Assault Survivor Stories creates a necessary and nuanced space centered on personal narratives and expert understanding. Each week, this podcast shares firsthand accounts from individuals who have experienced sexual assault, offering a raw and respectful look at the journey from victim to survivor. These stories aren't just about the trauma itself; they delve into the complex path of healing, highlighting both the profound adversities faced and the hard-won victories, large and small. Listening provides a window into the emotional and psychological dynamics that define survival, moving beyond simplistic narratives to honor the full, often messy, human experience. Crucially, this isn't a resource only for those directly affected. The podcast deliberately expands the conversation to educate a broader audience. Episodes explore the principles of trauma-informed communication and break down the neuroscience of trauma and memory, explaining how these factors impact a survivor's recall and testimony. This approach fosters deeper empathy and insight, whether you're a supporter, a professional, or anyone seeking to comprehend these issues on a more informed level. By weaving together personal truth and psychological context, this podcast serves as both a sanctuary for shared experience and a vital tool for collective learning.
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Duration: 1:07:56
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184. Emily: I Was Living My Life Like Nothing Happened [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 46:55
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182. Cassie Nicholas: When Help Was a Setup [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 45:53
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181. MJ: A Few Minutes That Changed Everything [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 51:49
In this powerful interview, MJ shares her journey through sexual assault, dissociation, and healing. We explore trauma's impact on the body and mind, the importance of support systems, and pathways to recovery. Discover…
179. Dr. Asher: Survivor-Led, System-Changing [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:01:35
Let me introduce you to this week's guest, Dr. Asher. I wanted her here on the show because she is someone whose work sits at the intersection of lived experience, rigorous research, and embodied understanding of trauma.…
178. Norma Peterson: The Power of the Evidentiary Abuse Affidavit [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:21:16
This week I sit down with Norma Peterson, Executive Director of Document the Abuse, to talk about the lasting impact of the Stacy Peterson case and the broader importance of documenting abuse when systems fail survivors.…
177. Daniel: Courage Doesn't Always Feel Brave [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 33:04
In this episode of Sexual Assault Survivor Stories, I sit down with Daniel—a listener who became a storyteller. Like many of the voices you hear on this podcast, Daniel didn't come to the microphone because he was certai…