159. Unlocking Purpose: How to Help Your Tween or Teen Discover Direction and Meaning

159. Unlocking Purpose: How to Help Your Tween or Teen Discover Direction and Meaning

Author: Therese Connolly April 22, 2025 Duration: 40:32

In this episode of The Parenting Reset Show, Tess Connolly, LCSW, sits down with teen coach and educator Will Kirsop to talk about something every parent wants for their teen: a sense of direction and purpose.

 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

   •   Why purpose matters for your teen’s mental health, motivation, and academic success.

   •   How a clear sense of purpose can help reduce stress, anxiety, and disconnection.

   •   A powerful tool called “Life Crafting”—and how it can guide your teen toward meaningful goals.

   •   How to use Appreciative Inquiry to spark deep, positive conversations with your tween or teen.

   •   Why open communication, compassion, and curiosity are key when parenting through this stage.

   •   How to support your teen’s transition to independence with confidence and clarity.

 This episode gives parents practical tools and science-backed strategies to help their teens feel more connected, focused, and hopeful about their future.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Setting the Stage

02:25 Understanding Purpose in Teen Development

09:45 The Role of Appreciative Inquiry

13:52 Practical Strategies for Parents

20:08 Fostering Purpose for Academic and Mental Health Benefits

21:32 The Importance of Purpose in Teen Development

24:36 Life Crafting: A Pathway to Meaningful Goals

27:17 Navigating Career Choices and Future Planning

30:59 Challenges of Transitioning to Independence

33:52 The Role of Compassion in Parenting

40:44 Gratitude and Reflection in Coaching

Find out more about Will Kirsop here 👉Many Roads | Teen Coaching

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📧Connect with Therese (Tess) Connolly, LCSW, CCC here👇: therese@mindfulkidsandfamilies.com  Website: www.mindfulkidsandfamilies.com

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Navigating the tween and teen years alone comes with a unique set of daily tests, from managing defiance to negotiating screen time in a connected world. Single Parenting Reset Show: For Solo Parents of Tweens and Teens is here for that journey. Hosted by Therese Connolly, a licensed clinical social worker and family coach, this podcast moves beyond theory to offer actionable steps you can use immediately. Therese draws on both professional expertise and a genuine understanding of the solo parent reality, where you’re the only one setting boundaries and mending fences. Conversations focus on turning behavioral challenges into opportunities for growth, finding realistic ways to pull kids from their devices, and fostering a home where communication actually works. You’ll hear strategies for building your own confidence as a parent while strengthening your family’s connections, all without the sugar-coating. This is a space for single moms and dads seeking real-life support, where every episode aims to provide a practical reset for the week ahead. Tune in for a blend of compassionate guidance and concrete tools designed specifically for the solo parent raising adolescents.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

Single Parenting Reset Show: For Solo Parents of Tweens and Teens — Manage Behavior Problems, Reduce Screen Time & Improve Communication
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