246. Why Tweens Push Back: What Parents Often Misunderstand

246. Why Tweens Push Back: What Parents Often Misunderstand

Author: Therese Connolly March 19, 2026 Duration: 9:47

Why does your once cooperative child suddenly argue about everything?

If you're parenting a tween, you may be noticing more attitude, pushback, and emotional reactions. Many parents interpret this behavior as disrespect or defiance, but developmental research suggests something very different is happening.

During the tween years (roughly ages 9–13), children begin developing stronger independent thinking and identity formation. This natural stage of development often leads to increased questioning of rules, negotiation attempts, and emotional intensity.

In this episode, Tess Connolly explains why tween pushback is a normal part of development and how parents can respond in ways that strengthen connection rather than escalate conflict.

You’ll learn practical parenting strategies that help you:

• Reduce power struggles with your tween

• Respond calmly when your child pushes back

• Encourage independence while still holding healthy boundaries

• Improve communication with tweens and early teenagers

If parenting your tween has started to feel more challenging lately, this episode will help you better understand what’s happening and how to navigate it with confidence.

Listen now to learn why tweens push back and what parents often misunderstand about this stage of development.

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