How To Spot A Fake Friend By Noticing The Baseline Shift

How To Spot A Fake Friend By Noticing The Baseline Shift

Author: Patrick King June 15, 2026 Duration: 25:11

Unlock the hidden code behind human behavior—before it costs you opportunities, relationships, and influence.Most people think they’re good at reading others. They’re not. They project, assume, and misinterpret—then wonder why conversations stall, deals fall apart, and signals get missed. Behavioral Tells cuts through the noise and shows you what people are actually communicating beneath the surface.

From bestselling author Patrick King, this is your field guide to decoding people in real time—without guesswork, overthinking, or relying on clichés like “just trust your gut.”

You’ll learn how perception quietly distorts everything you see—and how to fix it fast.

How perceptual biases like the halo effect and projection silently sabotage your judgment

The three perceptual positions that instantly sharpen your perspective in any interaction

Why your expectations shape what you notice—and how to break that loop

Practical ways to improve perceptual accuracy so you stop misreading people

But reading people isn’t just about what you see. It’s about what you notice, how you interpret it, and how you respond in the moment.

This book takes you deeper—into emotions, group dynamics, language patterns, and subtle behavioral signals most people completely miss.

The ABC model for understanding why people behave the way they do

Emotional granularity so you can distinguish nuance, not just “happy vs. angry”

The SUE framework for asking questions that reveal truth without resistance

How tone, word choice, and “meta-programs” expose hidden motivations

Along the way, you’ll learn why body language alone can mislead you, how attention flows in groups, and what everyday behaviors—like walking style, clothing, and even food choices—quietly reveal. Bottom line: This is not theory. It’s a toolkit.

Navigate conversations with precision

Spot inconsistencies before they become problems

Understand people faster than they understand themselves


Navigating social situations can feel like deciphering an unwritten code. Social Skills Coaching with Patrick King is a practical guide for those looking to move beyond theory and find actionable strategies for real-world interaction. This podcast delves into the mechanics of communication, dating, and personal image, breaking down the nuances that often hold people back. Patrick, a Social Interaction Specialist and best-selling author based in San Francisco, draws from his coaching experience to offer concrete steps. Listeners will hear direct advice on building confidence, improving conversational skills, and understanding the subtle dynamics of both online and in-person connections. Each episode focuses on translating self-improvement concepts into tangible results, covering aspects of mental fitness and social health. The goal is to provide a clear path for personal development in a society where authentic connection is paramount. Tune in for a straightforward, no-fluff approach to mastering the social arts.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 50

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