Why Your Questions Are Making People Like You Less

Why Your Questions Are Making People Like You Less

Author: Patrick King June 24, 2026 Duration: 13:26

00:00:54 The Art of Asking the Right Questions

00:01:51 The Kipling Method

00:08:38 Assumptive Questions

00:12:29 Here are the main takeaways from today's episode.

Behavioral Tells: Read the Hidden Signals Behind Every Action. What People Reveal Without Saying a Word. (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 46)

By Patrick King

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DYKN5V6H

Do you struggle to ask the right questions in conversations that lead to meaningful connection? Most people don't know how to ask better questions—they either interrogate or say nothing. Patrick King breaks down the 5W1H technique and the psychology of conversations to help you ask questions that actually get people to open up. Learn the social skills that work in any conversation, and build stronger connections by understanding what people really mean.

Behavioral Tells: Read the Hidden Signals Behind Every Action. What People Reveal Without Saying a Word. (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 46)

By Patrick King

Hey everyone! If you're looking to level up your social skills and communication abilities, make sure to check out Patrick King's insightful videos on how to ask better questions and engage in more meaningful conversations. Whether you’re using the 5W1H technique or diving into the psychology of conversations, Russell Newton joins Patrick to share powerful tips on conversation starters, asking the right questions, and mastering those all-important communication skills. Don't miss out!


Navigating social situations can feel like deciphering an unwritten code. Social Skills Coaching with Patrick King is a practical guide for those looking to move beyond theory and find actionable strategies for real-world interaction. This podcast delves into the mechanics of communication, dating, and personal image, breaking down the nuances that often hold people back. Patrick, a Social Interaction Specialist and best-selling author based in San Francisco, draws from his coaching experience to offer concrete steps. Listeners will hear direct advice on building confidence, improving conversational skills, and understanding the subtle dynamics of both online and in-person connections. Each episode focuses on translating self-improvement concepts into tangible results, covering aspects of mental fitness and social health. The goal is to provide a clear path for personal development in a society where authentic connection is paramount. Tune in for a straightforward, no-fluff approach to mastering the social arts.
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