The Tricky Side of Identity How Personal Growth Can Quietly Hold You Back

The Tricky Side of Identity How Personal Growth Can Quietly Hold You Back

Author: Penny Chiasson September 9, 2025 Duration: 24:38

Ever feel like you're doing all the "right" things—personal growth, coaching, human design readings—but something still feels off?
This episode unpacks how well-meaning identity work can subtly hold you back instead of move you forward.

Penny shares personal experiences navigating business growth, spiritual tools like human design, and advice from high-level coaches—only to realize that her subconscious was playing tricks on her identity. From misapplying "do less to do more," to unconsciously letting a sales coach's strategy override her natural strengths, Penny exposes how easy it is to adopt identity limitations without realizing it.

🎙️ In this episode, you'll learn:

  • How subconscious beliefs disguised as smart strategy can keep you stuck

  • Why your human design or numerology reading should inform you—not define you

  • What happens when your subconscious misuses personal growth advice to avoid fear and doubt

  • The surprising ways financial advice can become part of your identity (especially during retirement)

  • How Penny uses the Identity Matrix™ Method to align clients with their true desires

  • Why ethical hypnotists must be deeply intentional with suggestions to protect the mind

✨ Penny reminds us that the subconscious is a trickster—and if left unchecked, it will use even "good advice" as an excuse to stay small. This conversation is your wake-up call to check who's really running the show in your mind.

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There's a version of you that feels completely at ease, deeply confident, and fully aligned with success-and it might already exist within you. The real obstacle is often the way we've been taught to think. In Soul Fusion with Penny Chiasson, we explore the spaces between our conscious thoughts, subconscious patterns, and higher awareness to unlock who we're truly meant to become. Penny Chiasson guides these conversations for anyone who has ever sensed that achievement should feel more natural, that inner peace isn't a distant dream but a tangible state. This podcast moves beyond simple self-help tips, weaving together practical insights from education, spiritual wisdom, and personal growth. Each episode serves as a dialogue aimed at integration, where different layers of understanding fuse to create a more authentic and empowered life. You'll hear thoughtful explorations on dismantling limiting beliefs, cultivating a resilient mindset, and aligning daily actions with a deeper sense of purpose. The tone is both reflective and actionable, offering a companion for your own journey toward clarity. Tune in for a series that feels like a meaningful conversation with a trusted guide, one that honors the complexity of human experience while making profound concepts accessible and relevant to everyday living.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 50

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