Jason Portnoy of Paypal and Palantir on Porn Addiction, Shame Cycles, and the Dangers of Having It All

Jason Portnoy of Paypal and Palantir on Porn Addiction, Shame Cycles, and the Dangers of Having It All

Author: Jim Harshaw, Jr. December 12, 2022 Duration: 48:36

#382 Jason Portnoy of Paypal and Palantir on Porn Addiction, Shame Cycles, and the Dangers of Having It All

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Author and Venture capitalist Jason Portnoy grew up in the suburbs of New Jersey. He went to Stanford University and eventually found himself in Silicon Valley in the middle of what’s called the PayPal Mafia— where he worked with visionaries like Peter Thiel, Elon Musk, Max Levchin, and Reid Hoffman

This launched him into a life of wealth and prestige that he never dreamed of growing up.  

He had stock options in PayPal.
Flashy cars.
And an amazing family. 

Everything looked perfect on the outside, but on the inside, he had unhealed traumas from his past. Slowly and painfully, Jason descended into the dark world of pornography and sex— which pushed him and his life to the edge.

Listen to this episode of the Success Through Failure podcast as Jason walks us through his book, "Silicon Valley Porn Star: A Memoir of Redemption and Rediscovering the Self," and his journey that sheds light on a crisis of masculinity in our own world where so many men quest for unlimited power and success. 

Tune in now and be inspired to look inside of yourself and find your own path to success and fulfillment in becoming the person that you truly want to be. 

If you don’t have time to listen to the entire episode or if you hear something that you like but don’t have time to write it down, be sure to grab your free copy of the Action Plan from this episode— as well as get access to action plans from EVERY episode— at http://www.JimHarshawJr.com/Action.  


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