022 What is My Equivalent?

022 What is My Equivalent?

Author: Clare Dimond July 22, 2024 Duration: 17:20

This question comes from my current course on compassion, in which ‘resentment’ is one of our core topics. Resentment feels so awful because it is coming from the belief system that all behaviour is personally decided on and personally directed. Our identity goes into protection overdrive, creating the full lived experience of victim-villain.  

In these moments when resentment is running the show, there is one ultra-powerful question which ends the stress immediately. 

This question is “What is my equivalent?”. 

In this week’s podcast we are looking at how it relates to resentment, and why it is such a powerful tuning in device for the mind to come back into reality.

What is Covered: 

-What is resentment?

-Why resentment is so toxic and unproductive for the bodymind

-How to deal with the blame in resentment and why it is totally unfounded in reality

-What happens to our ego when we ask the question - What is my equivalent?

-What happens to the resentment when we find our equivalent

-The story from Dr. Edith Eger’s book “The Choice” 

Resources:

-Check out Dr. Edith Egger’s book “The Choice” https://www.amazon.com/Choice-Dr-Edith-Eva-Eger/dp/150113079X 

-Download our exclusive recording Free Subliminal: Supporting the Enquiring Mind  bit.ly/podcastsubliminal 

-Learn more about me and my work at https://claredimond.simplero.com/ 

-Find me on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/claredimondreal 

-Let’s connect on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/clare-dimond-b533007/ 

-Follow me on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/clare_v_dimond/


There's a quiet sense many of us carry, a feeling that the constant chase for better strategies in work, health, and life is missing the point. Superpowered Mind with Clare Dimond speaks directly to that intuition. Hosted by Clare Dimond, this podcast moves beyond the usual self-improishment advice to explore a foundational shift in how we experience thought itself. It’s for anyone who suspects that real peace and clarity aren't another hack away, but emerge from a different understanding of our own minds. Conversations here aren't about adding more techniques to your routine; they gently point you toward the innate resilience and well-being that get obscured by stress and overthinking. Whether you're navigating business decisions, personal fitness goals, or mental quietude, this podcast offers a space to consider how a change in perspective alters everything. You'll find episodes that feel like a series of quiet revelations, stripping away complexity to reveal the simplicity of a mind operating freely, without the struggle we so often assume is mandatory. It’s an invitation to stop seeking a superpower and to start recognizing the one you’ve always had.
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